What do I do if I feel the pressure coming from my family to follow and celebrate traditions that do not align with my thought process?? How can I make then subtly understand abt this?

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marwa mohammed asked 114 days ago

What do I do if I feel the pressure coming from my family to follow and celebrate traditions that do not align with my thought process?? How can I make then subtly understand abt this?

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Diwali is coming around and being a working mom and women, it has made me feel stressful from now itself. But i don't want to do that and I don't want to stress abt it.Rather i would like to prepare myself from now on for all the juggling i will have to do. Can anyone help me as to how i can manage my office commitments and diwali preps efficiently??

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i am a working women and i want to ask my fellow working ladies that how can i manage my work and also celebrate diwali which is my favorite festival to the fullest?? Any tips on how i can juggle both?

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Setting boundaries is very important here. Set definite time period for work,keep time for your family during Diwali. Also convey this to your manager that during Diwali you want to spend quality time with family ,so no overtime. Set clear expectations in your workplace and follow timelines. Wish you a wonderful Diwali

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Maim meri sadi kb aur kaun se sun me hogi mera meri date of birth 23 june sun 2003 me hai birth time hai 9.45 Am mam mera 10 mahine ka relationship tha maim mera boyfriend mujhe chhodkar dusri ladki se sadi kar rha hai kya maim wo meri life me wapas aaiyega uska naam Pranjal jaiswal hai date of birth 27 march sun 1999 birth time hai 8.45 pm mai abhi tk usko bhul nhi pai hu ham dono ak dusre ko bahut pyar karte the achank me ptaa nhi kya huaa ki usne mere se baat karna chhod diya mujhe etna Janna hai ki meri life wo dobara wapas aaiyega kya usse meri sadi ho paiyegi yaa koi aur meri life me aaiyega maim aur meri sadi kb hogi aur kaun se sun me please 🙏 mujhe ye sb Janna hai mai aapne boyfriend ko abhi tk bhul nhi Pai hu kya wah meri life me aaiyega kya usi se meri sadi hogi

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Yes, that’s your mothers mother , and that’s your grand mother she’s kinda like your second mother 😂, so yes you should because she is a mother herself.

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Yes. why not.

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I'm the youngest one in the family. My mother is kinda old and there hasn't been any kind of celebration on mother's day. Please tell me, What are some best Mother's Day gift ideas for older mothers?

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Since your mother is older and there hasn't been much celebration for Mother's Day in the past, consider giving her a gift that focuses on relaxation and comfort. You could arrange for a spa day or massage session to help her unwind and rejuvenate. Another idea is to create a personalized photo album or scrapbook filled with cherished memories and moments shared with her. Additionally, a heartfelt handwritten letter expressing your love and appreciation for her would be a meaningful and touching gesture.

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You can give her sarees or flowers or a bag which she chosses

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is Mother's Day considered more of a festival kinda thing or just a regular holiday? And what's the deal with that anyway? Like, what makes it different from other celebrations and stuff? And if it's not a festival should it be ???

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Mother's Day is coincidently on this Sunday. However it is not a holiday. It's just a special occasion that we have adopted from the Western world.

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Mother's Day is more of a special occasion than a festival.🤗It's a day dedicated to honoring and appreciating mothers and mother figures for their love and care. It's different from other celebrations because it focuses specifically on the maternal bond and the role of mothers in our lives.

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كلمت مامت خطيبي وبقولها عايزه اعمل مفاجأه لخطيبي بيني وبينك عشان عيد ميلاده وهجيبله تورته وكدا ونحتفل سوا عندكوا قالتلي احنا ملناش ف اعياد الميلاد والكلام دا قولتها دي حاجه بسيطه نفرحه بيها وكدا ايه رايك قالتلي متتعبيش نفسك واخرجوا انتو احسن وكانت بتسكت والشبكه بتقطع والمكالمه فصلت🙂 ... مع العلم انها مبتقوليش تعالي عندنا م نفسها الا قليل جداا ولا انا بروحلها دايما م ساعه خطوبتنا ودخلنا ف سنه اهو وهي قريبتنا م بعيد .. انا مكنتش هروووح لوحدي انا وماما بسسسس 😂 ومش هكلفهم اي حاجهه ولا هنعمل هيصه حتيييي وفكرت ف كدا عشان خطيبي بيقولي نفسي مره تجيلنا من نفسك تقعدي مع ماما واختي مش لازم نقولك تعالي بس انا مبعرفش ارمي نفسي ع حد😅 فقولت دي مفاجأه يعني

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اهلا جميله كوتو 🥰 الموضوع فى اكتر من جانب اللى فهمته انك عايزه تعبرى عن حبك واهتمامك وتعنلى شئ جديد ع خطيبك انك تعملى ليه مفاجاه وتفرحيه ده مبادره لطيفه منك 🥰 🎂🥳 وكل سنه وهو طيب محتاجه تعرفى كمان إن هل دى عادات وقيم اسره زوجك وده وضح فعلا من كلامك ربنا مرجعيه دينيه أو قيم عندهم وان ده شكل التفكير للاسره إلى هنامى ليها هل مناسب معاك ولا لاء هل خطيبك بيكون موازن بينكم ولا لاء لان ده اختلاف افكار وقيم وثقافه من بيت لبيت بتكون مختلفه هل هيكون ف توازن اعرفى ده من دلوقتي وحطيه ف الحسبان كمان لو ع عيد الميلاد ممكن يتعمل ف اى مكان آخر لو ده مش متاح ف بيت خطيبك وده طبعا بعد النقاش وتسمعوا بعض ده بشكل عام انما ف تفاصيل بتك ن أعمق اشجعك تتصلى فون كول خلال اللايف دمتى بخير وود 🥰

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Preetha_Balakrishnan・9d

Hi! Very deep question! Yes, it very much does as our experiences and influences are in the way we are brought up. How are parents bring us up and what we learn when we are a child (till we become sn adult) sets our values and beliefs. Infact it is such an irony in life, we come with nothing and go with nothing! In between we gather all the beliefs, values and towards the end we realise we need to shed them away! So, while the values and beliefs get set, let us not get too attached to it! That will help to be free and do what is needed whichever culture you belong to. Tc, Preetha Your coach

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Should we be celebrating aunties without kids on Mother's Day if they got nieces and nephews they're close with? Some folks think it's great to recognize their motherly roles, but others feel like it takes away from actual moms on their special day. What y'all think?

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It’s completely fine to celebrate our aunts on mother’s day because they as well play a role in raising us. But in the midst of all this let’s not forget that our actual moms also need that recognition and love

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Absolutely! Mother's Day is a day to celebrate and honor all women who have had a positive impact on the lives of others, including aunts who play an important role in the lives of their nieces and nephews. It's a wonderful opportunity to show appreciation for the love, care, and support they provide. Many people choose to acknowledge and celebrate their aunts on Mother's Day as a way of recognizing the meaningful relationships they have with them.

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Recently, during a conversation with my grandmother, she made a surprising claim about Mother's Day, insisting that it was actually invented by Hitler. I found this assertion quite startling and wondered if there's any truth to it. Can you shed some light on this historical tidbit?

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hiii as I know that Mother's Day was not invented by Hitler. The origins of Mother's Day can be traced back to ancient times, where various cultures celebrated motherhood and maternal figures in different ways. The modern concept of Mother's Day, as we know it today, was actually established in the early 20th century by Anna Jarvis in the United States. It's a day dedicated to honoring and appreciating mothers all around the world. So, no connection to Hitler there! 😅

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