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by Mona Singh on Jan 21, 2023

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I'm constantly criticized for not fitting into those old-school gender roles. You know, like not being the primary caregiver or always putting my partner first. How do I handle this and just live true to myself without all the judgment?

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Na_Dia

New Mothersanswered 69 days ago

Those who judge will always no matter what you do, so it's better you don't care

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Dr_MonaGujral

New Mothersanswered 68 days ago

You should concentrate on what you are good at and what your family is comfortable with. if they do not have an issue with your roles, then why bother.

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Don't give a damn about society's standards, just be your badass self, alright? Screw feeling sad, seriously. Start by loving yourself, doing whatever the hell you want, and say 'fuck you' to society's expectations

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