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is having children is important in life..what if I don't ever have them??

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aparnaa

New Mothersanswered 92 days ago

it's your decision. Dont let anyone make you feel guilty for that.

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paro0301

Single Parentinganswered 88 days ago

Children when they are product of love and responsibility between two people will cherish and take your life ahead... you relive your life in them... the journey is not smooth one... only if you are well equipped with partner's equal support love and responsibility you can go ahead... it is not a mandatory to have kids... don't go as per other's advice or seeing others... you decide if you are ready to take such responsibility or not... you can always support an orphan incase you need kids later.... just enjoy your life.

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MindsetbyMeenal

New Mothersanswered 96 days ago

Completely Your Choice and decision. Nothing is mandatory than your happiness!

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witty78

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Most people have children because they think there should be someone to look after them in old age.It means they expect something from their children.Actually this should not be our mindset. U r responsible for your life. It's completely ur choice to have children or not.Don't come under the influence of any one.

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it's a big responsibility and taking lifetime efforts to raise them thing multiple times

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