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I m facing mental torture from mother in law despite all efforts I'm not able to co up with 24/7 disrespectful behavior from her now I have twin kids they also facing n seeing such things everyday what should I do?

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dr_harpreetpsychologist

Infants/Toddlersanswered 11 days ago

Hi dear. I can understand what you are going through Try to communicate it your husband and be firm and polite to convey your boundaries to your mother in law.

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Infants/Toddlersanswered 11 days ago

You should talk to your mil and your husband both about. Tell them how this kind of behaviour will have a negative impact on the children. I feel honest communication would make things better. Also the things your mil is very particular about and is touchy about, make sure you get that task done, you can hire people to do it also so that she is not triggered. Try and understand her point of view, it will help you in having peace too.

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Infants/Toddlersanswered 11 days ago

First and foremost calm down.. Getting agitated is not going to resolve things. Talk to your husband and your Mother in law.. let them know what's acceptable and what is not. Talk to your mother in law seperately also and try to find what her real issue is ... she too must be going through some challenges and venting her frustration out on you .. Having said that you nit necessarily have to bear the brunt ! All the best 👍

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ClinicalPsychologist_Salony

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Hey! So sorry to hear about this..what you can do please note down the points where your mother in law gets agitated or scream on you and try to find out the pattern of her behaviour. Then you can modify your actions and reactions according to that so that she will also try to understand that you are making efforts to understand her as well. Hope this works for you..and of you want more suggestions you can join live sessions.

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