leisurelymerchandise
@leisurelymerchandise
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@leisurelymerchandise
Member since June 23, 2024 with 3 connections, 2 posts, and 18 communities. See all posts and communities by @leisurelymerchandise.
leisurelymerchandise asked 345 days ago
I had a guy friend.we were friends till college and when we joined for work,we became closer-he used to drop me in his vehicle,go for snacks together frequently,text me frequently and get me whatever I asked for.i felt as though he had interest in me from his actions.after 3 months he started going away from me,blamed me in front of everyone that I had interest in him.i never told him that I had feelings for him.nowadays he talks we ll with everyone else but he runs away on seeing me not even making eye contact with me.how do I solve this problem?why is this happening?could somebody help me?
I mean to say don't be rude but don't lower your self esteem and worth just go and tell him face to face (no I don't like u and you are just a friend nothing more or less)
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leisurelymerchandise asked 372 days ago
I had a guy friend .we had been friends since college days and once we joined work we became closer-used to go for snacks together,text frequently.he used to drop me everytime in his vehicle,get me whatever I asked for.i felt as though he had interest in me from his actions.but after 3 months he started going away from me blaming me, one fine day he blamed me in front of everyone that I had interest in him.nowadays he talks to everyone else well but to me ,one day he talks well,the other day he behaves very rude with me.i never told him that I had feelings for him.why is he behaving like this.a person who invariably used to talk only to me now has kept me distant than everybody else which hurts.how do I solve this problem?is there any problem with me?.i just hope things were how it were before.
Hello, I hope you feel better soon because I know how crushing it might feel to receive such mixed confusing signals. Let's try to differentiate and build a boundary around things here...was it the guy you liked as a whole or was it his behaviour that made you like him? If it was the behaviour because he made you feel special and secure means that he has caused your expectations of him to increase and now that your expectations have increased his changed behaviour is causing you pain. I would suggest you treat the scenario from a third person perspective and do what is best for you. I always tell all my clients not to give their remote control of happiness into anyone else's hand because no one can care for you like you do. Do join my live sessions for more clarity and we can navigate this together. Love, Arthi Sujai
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