sanchia99
@sanchia99
Member since October 22, 2023 with 4 connections, 26 posts, and 16 communities. See all posts and communities by @sanchia99.
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@sanchia99
Member since October 22, 2023 with 4 connections, 26 posts, and 16 communities. See all posts and communities by @sanchia99.
How to make your man cum with just your mouth and hands? I’ve tried but he never cums and I get tired then he has to finish himself
Hi! There is no right or wrong way or any full proof method of finishing someone with oral and hanjobs. Each man has his own unique style/techniques he prefers. Trick is to enjoy the moments & explore each other's pleasure zones instead of focusing on his climax. Have an open honest talk about what he likes. Here are some tips to get you started: 1)'Dirty talks' - some men love to hear what you would like to do to them or what you love about their body. Don't shy away from praising their skills too! 2)Ask him if how he likes to be touched. Experiment with pressure, angle, strokes. Encourage him to guide you as you explore. Mix in some edibles like whipped cream or chocolates to spice things up (just ensure he cleans it later to prevent infections) 3)Toys & props: Explore pleasure products like handcuffs, blindfolds, penis rings, strokers that add an element of fun while enhancing pleasure. 4)Explore Role plays, fantasies and kinks you would like to try out.
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sanchia99 posted 284 days ago
The Intimate Dilemma: An Emotional Rollercoaster of Crying After Orgasm🥲 Have you ever experienced a wave of conflicting emotions after reaching peak pleasure during an orgasm? The juxtaposition of euphoria followed by an unexpected bout of tears can leave many individuals feeling confused and vulnerable. In this post, we delve into the phenomenon of crying after orgasm, also called as post-coital tristesse (PCT) or colloquially termed ‘crymaxing’ Statistics 📊 The experience of crying after orgasm is more common than you might think. According to statistics, at least 45% of women have experienced crying after sex once in their lifetime Causes😢 * It’s a complex interplay of emotions that arises from the intense physical and emotional release that accompanies climax. * Physical factors like pain, vaginismus, lack of lubrication or any physical discomfort could cause one to cry * Psychological reasons like having underlying depression, anxiety, battling with shame or guilt and relationship issues could also cause one to shed tears post orgasm * Hormones like oxytocin and dopamine reach their peak during orgasm but drastically crash right after, which causes one to burst into tears as well * Stored trauma in the body from previous abuse or distress can also be released through orgasm and can be cathartic for some people too. This could also indicate buried or repressed feelings that need to be brought to the surface and worked through How to Manage😅 • Navigate post-orgasm tears with self-compassion, reflection, and open communication. Remember this is a common experience and nothing to feel ashamed about •Identify triggers and express your needs to your partner. Engage in supportive aftercare to regulate your emotions •Seek professional help from a sex therapist if it starts interfering with your sex life or relationship No matter what you may need to process or work through, give yourself compassion because you deserve to have sex and satisfying sex!❤️✨
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🌸 Navigating Dyspareunia in Women: Unveiling the Impact of Pain during Sex🌸 Causes 🔄: Dyspareunia, affecting many women, stems from physical factors like infections, dryness, cramps, fibroids, cysts, lack of arousal, pelvic disease to psychological factors such as anxiety, vaginismus and even relationship trauma. Notably, in cultures like India, guilt and shame associated with tabooed nature of sex may exacerbate this condition, calling for a comprehensive approach. Statistics 📊: Studies reveal 10-20% of women experience dyspareunia, yet societal taboos contribute to underreporting. Breaking silence is crucial to destigmatize the condition and encourage women to prioritize their sexual health. Therapy as a Solution 🌈: In the face of dyspareunia, therapy offers promise. Approaches like cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and psychosexual therapy unravel emotional aspects, providing coping mechanisms. In India, addressing guilt and shame becomes integral to holistic healing, empowering women to embrace their sexuality. Empowering Through Communication 🤝: Therapy becomes a platform for couples to navigate open conversations. In India, where cultural dynamics add complexity, therapists facilitate dialogues fostering empathy, intimacy, and joint efforts toward overcoming challenges, including guilt and shame. Pain assessment, diagnosis of underlying physical disorders, pelvic floor therapy, etc can all help in many ways. In addition to professional help, adding more lubrication to prevent friction, increasing foreplay time, connecting with your partner to put them at ease and increase arousal, trying positions that work and communicating with your partner at every step of the way becomes important in changing sex from being painful to pleasurable 🌸
I am suffering from vaginismous from really long (2 +years to be precise) I'm 25 now and still a virgin bcoz of my condition. it has affected my relationship and I completely lost confidence in being a woman, I feel useless and completely worthless. I cannot speak about it to anyone, I've tried to reach out to some psychologist on Instagram but the therapy seems to be expensive which I cannot afford. Can I get some emotional support here on coto at least... can I talk to someone...?
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sanchia99 posted 304 days ago
🌸 Navigating Dyspareunia in Women: Unveiling the Impact of Pain during Sex🌸 Causes 🔄: Dyspareunia, affecting many women, stems from physical factors like infections, dryness, cramps, fibroids, cysts, lack of arousal, pelvic disease to psychological factors such as anxiety, vaginismus and even relationship trauma. Notably, in cultures like India, guilt and shame associated with tabooed nature of sex may exacerbate this condition, calling for a comprehensive approach. Statistics 📊: Studies reveal 10-20% of women experience dyspareunia, yet societal taboos contribute to underreporting. Breaking silence is crucial to destigmatize the condition and encourage women to prioritize their sexual health. Therapy as a Solution 🌈: In the face of dyspareunia, therapy offers promise. Approaches like cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and psychosexual therapy unravel emotional aspects, providing coping mechanisms. In India, addressing guilt and shame becomes integral to holistic healing, empowering women to embrace their sexuality. Empowering Through Communication 🤝: Therapy becomes a platform for couples to navigate open conversations. In India, where cultural dynamics add complexity, therapists facilitate dialogues fostering empathy, intimacy, and joint efforts toward overcoming challenges, including guilt and shame. Pain assessment, diagnosis of underlying physical disorders, pelvic floor therapy, etc can all help in many ways. In addition to professional help, adding more lubrication to prevent friction, increasing foreplay time, connecting with your partner to put them at ease and increase arousal, trying positions that work and communicating with your partner at every step of the way becomes important in changing sex from being painful to pleasurable 🌸
Much needed information, thankyou
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sanchia99 posted 307 days ago
Breaking Free from Toxic Relationship Patterns: Embracing Healing and Transformation ❤️🩹🔄 💔Many individuals find themselves ensnared in toxic relationship patterns, often stemming from a traumatic childhood marked by emotional or physical abuse. 💔The familiarity of chaos becomes a comfort zone, making healthy relationships feel unfamiliar and uncomfortable. Understanding this cycle is crucial for breaking free and fostering personal growth. 💔Individuals from abusive backgrounds may unknowingly seek out relationships that mirror their past experiences. The chaotic nature of these connections aligns with their conditioned sense of normalcy. 🪞However, as adults, cultivating awareness and insight becomes pivotal in dismantling these destructive patterns. ❤️🩹Embracing healthier relationships can be challenging, as the absence of chaos can initially feel unsettling. The tranquility and stability may evoke discomfort due to its stark contrast to the accustomed turmoil. 🔄Breaking free from this cycle requires a conscious effort to recognize and challenge ingrained beliefs about what constitutes a "normal" relationship. 🪴Therapy emerges as a transformative tool in this process. It provides a safe space for individuals to explore their past, understand the roots of toxic patterns, and develop coping mechanisms. 🌟Therapists guide clients in building self-awareness, empowering them to recognize unhealthy dynamics and make conscious choices in relationships. 🧘🏻♀️The journey toward healthier relationships involves embracing the discomfort of the unfamiliar and fostering a commitment to personal growth. 🤝With therapy's transformative power, individuals can break free from the shackles of toxic patterns, allowing them to build fulfilling, nurturing connections and experience the joy of relationships rooted in love, respect and mutual understanding.
Lovely post. Therapy can be a powerful tool in addressing your relationship issues with yourself and others.
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sanchia99 posted 347 days ago
🌸 Embracing the Connection Between Emotions and Intimacy 🌸 Let's dive into a topic that might be a bit unexpected but totally valid – feeling a little frisky when you're navigating those low moments. It's true - our emotional and intimate worlds are more intertwined than we often realize. Research has shown that, contrary to what we might assume, some people experience heightened sexual arousal during periods of sadness. It's not about ignoring emotions; sometimes, it's about seeking comfort in that sweet release, those moments of elation that an orgasm can bring. What's the science behind it? Well, let's talk oxytocin and dopamine – the powerhouse neurotransmitters released during an orgasm. These little chemicals can work wonders, temporarily lifting our mood and providing a much-needed boost of feel-good vibes. It's like a mini spa day for your brain! Remember, everyone's journey is unique, and it's essential to honor your feelings. So, if you find yourself feeling this connection between emotions and intimacy, know that you're not alone! Share your thoughts and experiences too!🌺
Orgasms are beautiful
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