Farkındalık Yolculuğu community's profile image

by BaharKalyoncuYücel on Dec 7, 2023

Members icon

24 members

Members icon

256 posts

İnsanın en yakını kendisidir ve insan en çok içindeki sesi duyar. Bu yüzden iç sesin şefkatli olması, sağlıklı olması çok önemli. Bu köşe senin kendiliğinle bağ kurman, zihnini anlaman, yaşama farklı bir pencereden bakman için burada. Bazen zorlanırız, bunalır, yıpranırız. İşte böyle anlarda minik bir kol değneği, güvenilir bir dost omuzu olması için farkındalık yolculuğu burada. Senin sana dönüşün, dönüşümün kutlu olsun cânım kadın ! 🌱

🧠 Mental Health
Insomnia
Anxiety

Yaşın 5 Evresi ve Bir Yas Hikayesi Bugün hastaneye eşi 1 yıl önce vefat eden bir kadın geldi. 1,5 yıl önce de ablası vefat etmiş. Ablasında kalp rahatsızlığı varmış ve 5 yıl boyunca ablasına bakmış. Bir gün sabah eşiyle kahvaltı ederken, eşi bir şey istiyor, kadın mutfaktan almaya gidiyor ve döndüğünde eşinin nefes alamadığını fark ediyor ve eşi kollarında vefat ediyor. Dinlerken yüreğimizde oluşan acıyı tarif edemem. Onu çok özlüyorum diye ağlarken tüylerimiz diken diken oldu. Samimi bir acı, yüreğinizde derin bir yara açar. Bu vaka üzerinden yasın evrelerini konuşmak istiyorum. Öncelikle şunu belirtmek isterim: herkesin yası kendine özgüdür ve yas şu kadar sürer, şu evre şu noktada artık bitmelidir gibi bir şey söylenemez. Fakat yas evrelerini ele alabiliriz. Yasın 5 evresi vardır: 1. İnkar 2. Öfke 3. Pazarlık 4. Depresyon 5. Kabullenme #yas #yasın5evresi #inkar #öfke #pazarlık #depresyon #kabullenme

Yaşın 5 Evresi ve Bir Yas Hikayesi

Bugün hastaneye eşi 1 yıl önce vefat eden bir kadın geldi. 1,5 yıl önce de ablası vefat etmiş. Ablasında kalp rahatsızlığı varmış ve 5 yıl boyunca ablasına bakmış. Bir gün sabah eşiyle kahvaltı ederken, eşi bir şey istiyor, kadın mutfaktan almaya gidiyor ve döndüğünde eşinin nefes alamadığını fark ediyor ve eşi kollarında vefat ediyor.

Dinlerken yüreğimizde oluşan acıyı tarif edemem. Onu çok özlüyorum diye ağlarken tüylerimiz diken diken oldu. Samimi bir acı, yüreğinizde derin bir yara açar. 

Bu vaka üzerinden yasın evrelerini konuşmak istiyorum. Öncelikle şunu belirtmek isterim: herkesin yası kendine özgüdür ve yas şu kadar sürer, şu evre şu noktada artık bitmelidir gibi bir şey söylenemez.

Fakat yas evrelerini ele alabiliriz. Yasın 5 evresi vardır:
1. İnkar
2. Öfke
3. Pazarlık
4. Depresyon
5. Kabullenme

# # # # # # #
add reaction icon
comment icon

1

Comment

Comment icon
Creator profile picture

207d

sevdadiker

commented 207 days ago

Çok zor :(

add reaction icon

Comment

Answer icon

More Posts Like This

Trending iconPopular opinion
✨️💕
👍💗
Trending iconPopular opinion
Diiii I hope you are doing good, I m missing you a lot please come back soon 😭🌼❤️ There's lot of shit has happened with me in ur absence, idk how but ab aap hi samjhaoge....🥺♥️ I never thought I would become this close to someone.. you are definitely my soul sister 💕💕, my Love and everything ✨✨ Love uh more diii🌼🫶🫠🩷 Sending uh lots of love and blessings 😘💞 ~ Urs BABY🐥♥️ ( writing this as an anonymous, uh have to recognise...)
tanya kya hua kisne kuch bola m aari hu live aj
Trending iconTop discussion
me jise ka saat abi relationship me ha wo mera life partner banega kiya.
join my live session at 6-8pm 10-12pm onwards to get the answers of your questions 😊😊😊
Trending iconTop discussion
I've recently joined coto. And tbh I've first interacted with Pooja ma'am. She is so sweet and understanding person. She'll listen precisely to our problems firtst and then suggest appropriate solutions for that. I just love her energy. Lots of love Pooja ma'am ❤️❤️❤️ thankyou for being there everytime. Please shower your blessings 😊🙏🏻
Lipi_1215-10d
Yes ma'am, vaise to all fine. Bass vahi negative thoughts.. + coto ne dimag kharab krdiya hai
Trending iconTop discussion
Ever wondered why a caterpillar leaves it's beautiful and comfortable life and transforms into a butterfly?🦋 It's because you need to leave behind what’s familiar and comfortable (like the caterpillar’s life) to undergo personal shelter.The caterpillar is mobile enough to find food and shelter as compared to a butterfly but still transforms,to explore the world in a way it ever could before🤝 Girls, the whole point of this fact is that we need to understand that we deserve someone who values and respects us. Don't settle for someone who treats you as an option when you should be a priority. We have become so naive that we don't even want to look at the things we know that they're doing wrong! Love isn't a race. Take your time to find someone who meets your standards, and from standards I don't mean to say having expectations which is impossible to fulfill, standards which we deserve from our doings in a relationship! Relationships are about give and take. Don’t settle for someone who isn’t willing to put in the same effort that you do. And at last I'd say that we've got aakansha di who is there forever to guide us so don't you worry bache!😂❤ also this is my first time writing a community post, so any corrections is warmly welcome guys🤗Thank you!!
Trending iconTop discussion
@TarotHealerKaur thank you so much didi for making us meet lots of love 💟💟🤌🏻🤌🏻 @ love you 🫶🏻👀
hello
Thank you beta! Dhyaan rkho apna bhi.
Trending iconTop discussion
kuch baatein h unkahi❤ kuch jazbat h unkahe ❤ kuch khwaishe h dabi ❤ kuch mannatein unsuni ❤ h pura is bat p yakin ❤ k dhund lenge sukh mujhe bhi ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hi ... pls join my live tmrw at 10am
Hi ... pls join my live tmrw by 10am
Trending iconTop discussion
❤️❤️
Anonymous4d
seriously ur voice is tooooooooo awesome... abhi sote sote b sun kr so rhi hu tumhara song... love ur voice.... plz go ahead... we are with you sumanjuri..😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
Sooo beautiful 😍😍😍
Trending iconTop discussion
ohhhhh meri pyaariiii didiiiiiiiii meri broo...🤌🏻🤌🏻 tussi great ho didiiii tum jaisa koi nhiii tum sabse pyari ho didi sabse nyaariii hooo you don't how much you mean to mee... whenever you calls me betaaa I feel like I'm in best hands... i forever want to be your Lil annu your Lil sister though hum abhi mile still lagta batao purana rishta h thank you for existing in my life my life without you is incomplete 🫵🏻🤌🏻 words can't describe my love for you didiiiiiiiii hehehe god always bless you.. ps:- i love you ❤️🥺🤌🏻🤌🏻 @TarotHealerKaur 🫂🧿🤌🏻🫵🏻
Thank you anuuuuu❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ This is soo sweet! You are an amazing human! Don’t ever forget that! Thank you once again🥰🥰

Trending creators for you

See more iconSee All

H

Harika8409
Education & Career

more

US

UnitedStates7908
Insomnia

more

Anjali's profile picture
NumerologyExpertAnjali
Financial Independence

I’m a Numerologist dedicated to helping you understand the significance of numbers in your life. My sessions focus on providing insights into your personal and professional life through numerology, helping you make decisions that align with your true path. Let’s work together to unlock the secrets of your numbers.more

Himadri's profile picture
RelationshipCoach_DrHimadri
Trending

Dr. Himadri Roy is a mental health professional practicing for more than 3 years and have helped 700+ people with her expertise in Medicine and Psychology. Healing becomes holistic when she joins you in your journey. more

gudepu's profile picture
gudepukavyanjali2530
Single Parenting

I am Gudepu kavyanjali deeply shaped by my experiences in the National Cadet Corps (NCC), where I earned both the B and C certificates, which I consider significant milestones in my personal growth. Through my time in NCC, I developed discipline, leadership skills, and a strong sense of responsibility, qualities that continue to guide me in everything I do. My academic journey is rooted in Osmania University and RBVRR Women's College, institutions that I credit for providing me with a solid educational foundation. I take pride in being a cadet, as it not only shaped my character but also instilled in me a commitment to community service and teamwork.more

MANZUSHA's profile picture
TarotGuideManzusha
Education & Career

I am Tarot Card Reader...Spreading hopes and Helping people from last six years. My cards promise to heal wounded souls 💜more

Deepali's profile picture
TarotDeepaali
New Mothers

I am an, Educator,Tarot card reader,Numerologist,Bhrigu Nandi Nadi Expert Author .I am available to give much suitable solutions of your problems 😊more

Tarot's profile picture
Tarot_MeghaJ
Financial Independence

I am an intuitive tarot reader with a passion for helping others gain clarity and insight through the cards. With years of experience, I provide compassionate, honest readings to guide you through life's challenges and decisions. Whether you're seeking answers about love, career, or personal growth, I'm here to offer spiritual guidance and empower you on your journey.more

LT

Lipi_1215
New Mothers

more

Trending communities for you

See more iconSee All
Happy Relationships community profile picture
❤️ Relationship

Healthy, happy relationships are so important for our well-being and happiness. A Community where all of us can talk about relationship issues, how to fix them, and how to nurture rich connections and bonds.more

Relationship Compass community profile picture
❤️ Relationship

Welcome to our page! Here, we believe in fostering healthy and fulfilling relationships. Whether you're seeking guidance on finding love, navigating a long-term partnership, or dealing with a challenging situation, we're here to support you every step of the way.Feel free to post your queries in the community and I will help you out to the best of my knowledge!more

Life, love and essentialities community profile picture
❤️ Relationship

Let's talk about love, life, relationships, fitness and other essentialities of our existence. U can message me, discuss, share experiences, suggest and reach out if u need help as I can coach u for leading a contented life.more

Heal your life community profile picture
❤️ Relationship

I am Anjali Dwivedi spiritual therapist and counsellor.I am certified Theta healer, manifest abundance coach, numerologists, tarot card reader, vastu coach, inner child healer, ancestors healer, money reiki healer and I have done many more modalities and I have 5 years+ experience and I healed and guide 1000+ clients through my therapy so I would like to invite in my live session on coto app thankyou more

Marriage community profile picture
members icon1.7k
content icon483
❤️ Relationship

Marriage.. Love/Arrange You should know your worth Never underestimate yourself You are always special...🌞more

TV

❤️ Relationship

Welcome to Tarot Visions, a community where intuition meets insight! Here, we explore the mysteries of tarot to bring clarity, healing, and guidance to life’s questions. Join us to connect with like-minded souls, dive into tarot wisdom, and discover the path that lies ahead.more

Talk widout any Hesitate community profile picture
❤️ Relationship

Alot things i Cant discuss my family,my friend,my brothers & sisters because a hestitate how he think about me,,i think he listen me carefully but he cant understand how i have actually faced in my life.And i think i never explain many things related my problems.Now i will create a loyal community for allzzz womens to speak here any problem and disscuss wothout any hesitation because Doniaa is here dear no fear.more

H2

❤️ Relationship

Hi everyone my self is Sonia my community is basically for those who want to share something which they can't share with parents friends or with any relative ,we are here to listen you be free to talk to us about your emotions about how you feel and what you want to do who exactly you are and what you have in your mind , we are open to hear you from our heart and we also create special moments for those who want to do something special for their loved ones we create special moments for everyone who want to make some memorable moments with his or her special ones either friends family or love of your life you say and we create it ......more

L

❤️ Relationship

love if not gone through a right path it's always be painful. and if not heal aor issue solved than this pain become deeper with the time. so ryt path need and ryt solution needed to healmore

हमारे रिश्तों की बातें community profile picture
❤️ Relationship

रिश्ते हमारी जिंदगी का सबसे अहम हिस्सा होते हैं। अक्सर कई सवाल और बातें अनकही रह जाती है क्योंकि हमें सही जगह नहीं मिलती अपनी मन की बात करने के लिए। यह कम्युनिटी हम सबको उन बातों और सवालों से मिलाने के लिए है जो हम पल पल पर अपने अंदर ही दबाते रहते हैं ताकि हमारे रिश्ते खूबसूरती से निभाते रहे।more