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by Shalini Behl on Sep 22, 2022

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For the past three months, my relationship with my best friend has been changing inexplicably. He's been avoiding me, and on May 11th, I caught him with another girl. Shockingly, I learned they've been together for over eight months. This revelation shattered my heart, and yesterday, he officially ended things between us. Is it advisable to move on swiftly from such a painful situation, or is it better to wait before attempting to move forward?

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SwastiGenztherapist

answered 489 days ago

Its advisable that you first accept how hurt and betrayed you are right now, first you lost a meaningful bond, then you faced betrayed and trust issue and also such seperation of him without knowing and understanding how you feel can be a difficult situation to be in, I suggest first you understand you are hurt and you also need social support, try connecting with more people, slowly try to move on, be honest with how you feel and don’t rush,i hope you get some good friends ships in near future

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Seemachaudhary

answered 487 days ago

I'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through. It's a deeply painful experience, and it's natural to feel a mix of emotions. Moving on swiftly or waiting both have their merits, but the most important thing is to prioritize your emotional well-being. Allow yourself to grieve and process the situation at your own pace. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family, and engage in activities that bring you comfort and joy. Healing takes time, so be patient with yourself and seek professional help if needed. Ultimately, listen to your heart and take the steps that feel right for you.

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puja_verma

answered 485 days ago

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answered 481 days ago

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intimacycoachsampadafotedar

answered 481 days ago

Hi. Hope you are doing well! I am really sorry for your experience. I understand it must have hurt :( I feel it’s very important for you to acknowledge and get in touch with your emotions. You don’t have to be in a hurry to move on. It’s okay to take your time and process this. Talking to someone or taking therapy will help. Just take your time with it and accept that the situation is difficult and it’s okay to feel hurt. I hope you feel better soon take care!

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