by Shalini Behl on Sep 22, 2022
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I often find myself confused when it comes to relationships and I guess I'm allowed to be. This time it's a rather serious one. Me and my boyfriend are together for almost 5 years but never in live in. I just think if it's really necessary to live together before getting engaged inorder to know each other better. ?? I can know a person in 5 years if we say that. What's your say in this .?
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Its not necessary to be in live in before engagement you can either take “go with flow” approach and whatever the relationship will enfold solve all problems together, or you can plan and weigh pros and cons in live in and then make informed decision so this can be completely your choice
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Hi. Hope you are doing well. Living in does not have much to do with “getting to know” someone. Yes of course, you live under the same roof but getting married too brings up a lot of surprises which either partner or both partners may not be aware of about each other. It’s totally a personal choice. Whether you live in or not, marriage does bring up a lot of new revelations
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Getting to know each other better love in is a great option as you get to know what a person does during his day how he lives what he likes and what you like about this habits
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