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Hi, this is Deepika: How do I navigate the challenges of a new marriage and build a strong relationship with my spouse? @Intelligent_Rocket_0277

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Spend time with him. get to know each other- likes, dislikes etc. Stay honest in the starting itself. Share anything that you want to in the beginning such as something about your past, ex, relationships etc. This will avoid any misunderstanding in the future. lastly have fun go out and enjoy. watch movie, dance, go on dates.

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don't poke him all the time.... talk to him.... spend money on him also.... Don't interfere all the time

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