by Mona Singh on Jan 21, 2023
3921 members
2858 posts
hello, I want to share something. I have been married for a year . Things have not been right. My parthner sometimes very caring and supportive but most of the time he get into influenced by his family. even his decisions are dependent on them . They are proving to be a trauma to me . As not directly but indirectly they used to hurt me emotionally and mentally. I tried to convey all to my husband but he didn't try to understand. I have been very sensitive yet strong throughout my life. have been independent. have been loved my family aa lot . I m literally in trauma but very confused. I decided ki ghr chali jau. iss situation m reh b ni pati hu or dur jati hu to uska intejar rhta Hai. it's being 1 month almost lekin mere husband ka koi respond ni Aya hain . Essa lagta h undone mujhe kabhi pyr hi ni kiya. Sab jhut tha. phir lagta h kiya but aj b hmari life k decisions apni family se puch k le rh h. ... I literary don't know... move on kana chahte hu but Kar b ni pa rh hu..kahi na kahi intejar h unka it's depressing ..
5
Comment
330d
・commented 330 days ago
Hi MsMe, It's time you talk to your husband . live emotions , relationship s etc all are important but nothing at the cost of your health! Not clear where you currently living, with your parents or with your husband? Distancing and no communication makes the relationship worse.So if possible you should be with your husband, talk to you inlaw s find out what is the reason they behaving with you in this manner. And yes talk to your husband before you talk to your in-law.. try and understand the reason why he is behaving in this manner. Until and unless you communicate don't take any decisions! goodluck 👍
1
Comment
a
318d
・commented 318 days ago
Hello by profession m an advocate, and it's my suggestion don't take any decision without communication. Ask him and clear every doubt that you have in your mind. no one is perfect, lots of Problems in every relationship. koi bhi relationship perfect nhi hota ask him and take decision wisely. agr aap apne aap se sb sochti rhegi to khud ki mental health khraab kregi . so communicate 🙏
Comment
s
328d
・commented 328 days ago
1 mahine me bhi aapka haal nhi puchha to zahir h k kitni mohabbat hai.but aap pahal kijye shayd koi problem ho ise bhi qk aap ne bhi to try nhi kiya. mil kr baat kijye. alg hone ko kahye gr sath rahna chah rhe honge to rasta nikaal lenge wo. wrna km se km aapko afsos nhi higa k tu didn't try.jahan tk saas sasur ki baat h to sb ek jaise hote h. haan husbbd kaisa h badal sakta h k nhi ye aapko tay krna h. mujhe to mere hubnd ne kaha tha ghar chal jao problm h to.hum bole bhav kr nhi aaye nikaah kr k laate h jise mujhse problm h wo jaye. mai yhi rahungi n aapko mujhe meri zarurton ko pura krna hoga. ldte ldte h 9 saal lg gye ab jaa k lgata h k bas gyi hu mai apne ghr me.
Comment
l
328d
M
329d
・commented 329 days ago
I tried a lot to communicate but he never tries to understand my problems. if somehow I address a issue he always says ki tm hamesha complain krti ho.its being a month or more me living at my parents place but he didn't take any initiative to make thinks work out. 3 times we have talked in this spaan n he only says ki tm aa jao Sab Theek Ho jygea...nothing else. m wha ek Sal se th tb b kuch thk ni hua Tha.
Comment
Trending Creators
N
Mehndi/Henna
N
Marriage
Positive Psychology Interventions
R
Sexual Dysfunction
P
Family Issues
L
Positive Psychology Interventions
Love Life
P
Marriage
R
Love Life
g
Marriage
Load more
Trending Communities
Family Issues
Family Issues
TV
Family Issues
Family Issues
Family Issues
Family Issues
Family Issues
Family Issues
Family Issues
TT
Family Issues
Load more
More Posts Like This
Top discussionUnlock your potential and find solace through a transformative journey of self-discovery with professional counselling - because your mental wellbeing matters.snsb
Top discussion@RelationshipCoach_Khadija @RelationshipCoach_Khadija these are the rings 💕
Top discussionAre you cheated in love?? Chalo baat karte hai #cheating #relationships
Top discussionI met a guy for shadi through my family last month and we were connected very well. We both liked each others and now we completely disconnected. He is confuse and not 100% sure for shai. Is he back to me ? When he will back if yes .
Top discussionHello lovies I’m your tarot expert kumkum Singh so here I’m about myself whenever you need my help just come in my live and I’m always there for you in any situation 😘❤️
Top discussionme with my husband (Anshu Singh+ Vikash Ranjan Singh)
Top discussionNeed someone to listen? Counselling offers a safe space to explore your emotions, overcome challenges, and find your inner strength, empowering you to take charge of your life's journey. Speak to coto Experts now!
Top discussionEver wondered why a caterpillar leaves it's beautiful and comfortable life and transforms into a butterfly?🦋 It's because you need to leave behind what’s familiar and comfortable (like the caterpillar’s life) to undergo personal shelter.The caterpillar is mobile enough to find food and shelter as compared to a butterfly but still transforms,to explore the world in a way it ever could before🤝 Girls, the whole point of this fact is that we need to understand that we deserve someone who values and respects us. Don't settle for someone who treats you as an option when you should be a priority. We have become so naive that we don't even want to look at the things we know that they're doing wrong! Love isn't a race. Take your time to find someone who meets your standards, and from standards I don't mean to say having expectations which is impossible to fulfill, standards which we deserve from our doings in a relationship! Relationships are about give and take. Don’t settle for someone who isn’t willing to put in the same effort that you do. And at last I'd say that we've got aakansha di who is there forever to guide us so don't you worry bache!😂❤ also this is my first time writing a community post, so any corrections is warmly welcome guys🤗Thank you!!
Top discussion@TarotHealerKaur thank you so much didi for making us meet lots of love 💟💟🤌🏻🤌🏻 @ love you 🫶🏻👀
Trending creators for you
See AllI am intuitive and certified tarot and numerology reader and I am in to this journey since 2017 and every modality has transformed me into a new me everyday. Tarot came into my life as a blessing and it bought a lot of positive changes. when I spread my cards I feel the divine energies around me. I feel I am just a mediator between my clients and divine the energies. I am always ready and willing to help everyone with positivity. I want to share my knowledge and guidance with each and everyone who really needs a help to make their lives more beautiful, positive and happy. more
Trending communities for you
See All14.3k
3.0kHealthy, happy relationships are so important for our well-being and happiness. A Community where all of us can talk about relationship issues, how to fix them, and how to nurture rich connections and bonds.more
5.9k1.1kWelcome to our page! Here, we believe in fostering healthy and fulfilling relationships. Whether you're seeking guidance on finding love, navigating a long-term partnership, or dealing with a challenging situation, we're here to support you every step of the way.Feel free to post your queries in the community and I will help you out to the best of my knowledge!more
TV
934404Welcome to Tarot Visions, a community where intuition meets insight! Here, we explore the mysteries of tarot to bring clarity, healing, and guidance to life’s questions. Join us to connect with like-minded souls, dive into tarot wisdom, and discover the path that lies ahead.more
Let's talk about love, life, relationships, fitness and other essentialities of our existence. U can message me, discuss, share experiences, suggest and reach out if u need help as I can coach u for leading a contented life.more
I am guided by the intuitive wisdom of the Tarot, where love is not just a feeling, but a journey of connection and growth. more
talk, shed off sorrows, find new meaning, explore ur feelings, channelise emotions and stay mentally sound. more
1.9k423रिश्ते हमारी जिंदगी का सबसे अहम हिस्सा होते हैं। अक्सर कई सवाल और बातें अनकही रह जाती है क्योंकि हमें सही जगह नहीं मिलती अपनी मन की बात करने के लिए। यह कम्युनिटी हम सबको उन बातों और सवालों से मिलाने के लिए है जो हम पल पल पर अपने अंदर ही दबाते रहते हैं ताकि हमारे रिश्ते खूबसूरती से निभाते रहे।more
1.9k643Marriage.. Love/Arrange You should know your worth Never underestimate yourself You are always special...🌞more
253289I believe that every life is a beautiful journey filled with ups and downs, and it’s okay to seek support along the way. Our community is dedicated to promoting mental wellness, emotional resilience, and personal growth through open conversations, resources, and support. Whether you're facing anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or simply navigating life’s challenges, Dear Zindagi is a safe space for you. We aim to break the stigma around mental health, offering encouragement and tools to help you embrace a healthier, happier version of yourself. Join us to share your experiences, learn from others, and discover how small steps can lead to a more fulfilling life. Let’s heal, grow, and thrive together! more