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by Mona Singh on Jan 21, 2023

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hello, I want to share something. I have been married for a year . Things have not been right. My parthner sometimes very caring and supportive but most of the time he get into influenced by his family. even his decisions are dependent on them . They are proving to be a trauma to me . As not directly but indirectly they used to hurt me emotionally and mentally. I tried to convey all to my husband but he didn't try to understand. I have been very sensitive yet strong throughout my life. have been independent. have been loved my family aa lot . I m literally in trauma but very confused. I decided ki ghr chali jau. iss situation m reh b ni pati hu or dur jati hu to uska intejar rhta Hai. it's being 1 month almost lekin mere husband ka koi respond ni Aya hain . Essa lagta h undone mujhe kabhi pyr hi ni kiya. Sab jhut tha. phir lagta h kiya but aj b hmari life k decisions apni family se puch k le rh h. ... I literary don't know... move on kana chahte hu but Kar b ni pa rh hu..kahi na kahi intejar h unka it's depressing ..

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Hi MsMe, It's time you talk to your husband . live emotions , relationship s etc all are important but nothing at the cost of your health! Not clear where you currently living, with your parents or with your husband? Distancing and no communication makes the relationship worse.So if possible you should be with your husband, talk to you inlaw s find out what is the reason they behaving with you in this manner. And yes talk to your husband before you talk to your in-law.. try and understand the reason why he is behaving in this manner. Until and unless you communicate don't take any decisions! goodluck 👍

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Hello by profession m an advocate, and it's my suggestion don't take any decision without communication. Ask him and clear every doubt that you have in your mind. no one is perfect, lots of Problems in every relationship. koi bhi relationship perfect nhi hota ask him and take decision wisely. agr aap apne aap se sb sochti rhegi to khud ki mental health khraab kregi . so communicate 🙏

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1 mahine me bhi aapka haal nhi puchha to zahir h k kitni mohabbat hai.but aap pahal kijye shayd koi problem ho ise bhi qk aap ne bhi to try nhi kiya. mil kr baat kijye. alg hone ko kahye gr sath rahna chah rhe honge to rasta nikaal lenge wo. wrna km se km aapko afsos nhi higa k tu didn't try.jahan tk saas sasur ki baat h to sb ek jaise hote h. haan husbbd kaisa h badal sakta h k nhi ye aapko tay krna h. mujhe to mere hubnd ne kaha tha ghar chal jao problm h to.hum bole bhav kr nhi aaye nikaah kr k laate h jise mujhse problm h wo jaye. mai yhi rahungi n aapko mujhe meri zarurton ko pura krna hoga. ldte ldte h 9 saal lg gye ab jaa k lgata h k bas gyi hu mai apne ghr me.

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hi

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I tried a lot to communicate but he never tries to understand my problems. if somehow I address a issue he always says ki tm hamesha complain krti ho.its being a month or more me living at my parents place but he didn't take any initiative to make thinks work out. 3 times we have talked in this spaan n he only says ki tm aa jao Sab Theek Ho jygea...nothing else. m wha ek Sal se th tb b kuch thk ni hua Tha.

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