by Zanzanil Patel on Jun 22, 2023
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Hi I am 17 and I am in my first relationship. I have only seen love in movies and I am so excited. however my friends say I am expecting too much. how do I be realistic? @Zanzanil
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From not setting what we see in movies to just try knowing yourself and him/her better, try to know the friendship and person more rather than thinking how to have “perfect relationship” try having a strong friendship
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a realistic approach to any relationship is to know and value your own strengths and weakness. that way no one can sway you by compliments or praising you. when you treat yourself with value and respect, you set a higher bar for others to treat you. and then see, who is willing to go that extra mile. just remember, life is beautiful and worth living, no matter what experience you encountered. it's all just a learning process to value yourself more
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