Zanzanil
@Zanzanil
Dance
Movies
Support
City
Member since August 16, 2023 with 17 connections, 153 posts, and 36 communities. See all posts and communities by Zanzanil Patel (@Zanzanil).
Questions Answered by Zanzanil
I have marriage issues.
2
1
what exactly is disturbing you?
Answer
Sometimes I really think, 'Kya usko apni galatiyaan realise hui hongi? ' Agar nahi, to mann karta hai I should go and tell him that how you have hurt me, how many times you did those things again and again! But should for it or leave it?
5
1
most of the times the poor communication results in one person hurting the other person. they genuinely don't know that they are hurting the other person. it is worth having the discussion atleast once about how you are feeling. and it's important for this discussion to be non judgemental. and if the person doesn't respond with compassion and willingness to adapt then that's a clear sign to make your choices.
Answer
So after breakup, I found that I'm searching another guy! Not for relationship but just for feeling the same beautiful things, jo ki relationship ki shuruaat me hoti hain! Sometimes I feel like I'm doing something very wrong, not able to decide, ki karu kya? Kaise is dukh se chutkara mile?
2
1
the reason we actually fall in love is because we are in love with the feeling we experience when in love. so what you are feeling is absolutely normal. what you want to do now is heal so that you become the source of feeling the experience on your own without the need for another person. love, respect and honour yourself first.
Answer
I have been feeling lost in the shuffle of life, struggling to find my place and yearning for a sense of fulfillment. Each day feels like a maze of uncertainty, leaving me unsatisfied and craving purpose. How did you navigate through a similar phase and discover what truly brings meaning to your life?
5
3
when I was in that phase, i commited to myself. do whatever it takes. whether it was a small task or a major one. if I was drawn it it I did it. and it step by step opened up my path to my purpose. the journey will rarely reveal itself entirely. it will reveal itself only one step at a time. just the next step. every step.
Answer
Posts by Zanzanil
Personal boundaries are about knowing yourself. knowing who you are how you deserve to be treated.
1
3
not really. it requires clarity. when you have clarity it becomes easy to work with it.
Comment
we tend to people please and agree to things even it costs us out health. whether mental, emotional or any other form. let's say NO and prioritise our wellness
2
2
Hey
Comment
Change is inevitable. Don't accept the blame of changing. Ask yourself if you expanded by the change or did you allow it to reduce you.
2
1
Change is inevitable and suffering is optional
Comment
If people can't meet you half way, the you can always choose to meet them half way. There is no shame in withdrawing when the other person is not equally invested in you. So match their investment if they can't match yours.
5
5
If someone doesn't meet you halfway, it's okay to meet them halfway instead. It's not shameful to step back when they're not equally invested. Match their effort if they can't match yours.
Comment
the conditioning that 'family comes before ourselves' has a major part to contribute to lack of boundaries. because we've just learned to say 'yes' when we want to say 'no'. it starts with the family. and then becomes a habit that spreads out to other relationships as well. prioritising the family is one thing and saying 'yes' when you truly want to say 'no' is a very different thing. do you know the difference?
1
1
agree
Comment
1 key to personal boundaries is *CLARITY*. of what you want, the more clear you are the stronger the boundary.
1
True
Comment
lack of person boundaries, not always, but usually involves the fear of loosing. loosing the person, the connection, or the feeling of inadequacy. is the relationship is worth it, if you have to fear loosing it? By setting clear boundaries, we can prioritize our emotional well-being and nurture healthier relationships.
2
Live easy! Consciously
Comment
Hello members, how was your festival season? all the social gatherings and adjustments along with the fun. let's share our stories of 1. holding boundaries 2. failed boundaries 3. learned boundaries let this be a journey of growing together.
1
Living happily in my own world
Comment
Posts Commented by Zanzanil
Personal boundaries are about knowing yourself. knowing who you are how you deserve to be treated.
1
3
not really. it requires clarity. when you have clarity it becomes easy to work with it.
Comment
My Mental Wellness Journey
8286LovelyFlamingo posted 379 days ago
I am missing that husband from whom I want divorced as he was not a good person what should we do when the condition is not under our control
3
whe you can't change the situation, change yourself. what can help you cope with the situation better? and build it up within yourself. confidence, self esteem, emotional clarity, setting priorities. a lot can help
Comment
Communities by Zanzanil
🏁 Coaching
Welcome to the Empowered Boundary Keepers community on Coto! We're here to support each other in setting and maintaining healthy boundaries in our lives and relationships. Share your experiences, seek advice, and find resources to empower yourself in creating a balanced and fulfilling life. Join us in fostering respect, empathy, and personal growth. Together, we can cultivate strong boundaries and authentic connections.more
Creators with similar interests
Eating Disorders
Hi, this is Monika Das, I have an experience of 10 years in corporate mental health with my immense knowledge in creating content for women in coto, I work towards bringing emotional wellness in women being a Psychologist myself I am able to work closely with different age groups of women and understand their issues. With my master degree in clinical Psychology and accredited Diploma in community mental health psychology under NIMHANS and with the expertise in other therapeutic approaches like mindfulness based therapy and art therapy I am here for you to help you out during your challenging phase with all those scientific approaches and techniques. I am skilled in dealing stress, burnout, anxiety along with other emotional issues. I am Psychologist Monika; Trust Me I will help You. more
Eating Disorders
"A bird's eye view 🦅 is different than a worm's eye view 🐛 and both of them are equally important."Ms. Debolina Mondal is a psychologist with a 3 years of intense work experience in the field of psychology in both clinical and non-clinical settings. She provides psychological counseling to the individuals and as well as educate individuals on mental health from different professional background. She simplifies the key topics on how to improve one's mental health in a simple way, so that they can assess themselves primarily if required. She is also a body language expert and a wonderful dream analyst. Her dream analysis is mostly in the Jungian method. She is also a Graphologist- a projective technique which analyse am individual's personality through handwritten sample. She is also queer sensitive 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 in her practise and believes in gender sensitivity and inclusivity Her live session timings are: 8:00 p.m. to 10:00 p.m. & 11:00 p.m. to 1:00 a.m., from Thursday to Tuesday more
Eating Disorders
Hi, this is Radhika. I am a Tarot card reader. My journey has been really transforming and insightful. There are times, when we just need some guidance and a little push to take that leap of faith and move forward without any fear of being judged. I hope i will be able to help you with that. And like i always say, Let's walk, talk and grow together. So, begin your journey today! more
Trending Creators
See All
Trending Communities
See All
🍿 Entertainment
this community is to share the things that we are passionate about and allow ourselves to understand and connect with others through storytelling, sharing our real stories with creativity!more
37
3⏲️ Fitness
I provide Opportunity international digital work business success this is the first step you 👈🤝🤙8101667213( rejistaion from free 👈 wonderful income and beautiful lifestyle financiel freedom anytime 🆗👉🥰 your interesting inbox 📥 me contact me 👈🤝🤙more
CO
🏁 Coaching
we are 2lakh+ social media commumity on facebook. if you lend one hand, thousands will lend hand to you.. Together we make a difference!!more
11.2k2.1k❤️ Relationship
Healthy, happy relationships are so important for our well-being and happiness. A Community where all of us can talk about relationship issues, how to fix them, and how to nurture rich connections and bonds.more
