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Is it healthy to have separate lives in a relationship? For instance, my boyfriend and I have different hobbies and friend groups. He loves playing soccer with his friends on weekends, while I enjoy painting and spending time at art galleries. Sometimes, I wonder if it's good for us to have these separate interests and activities, or if we should be trying to do more things together. What do you think?

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I believe having different interests doesn't impact your relationship as much as the quality time you spend together.

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AshMegha

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Totally! Some couples thrive with "me time." As long as you connect regularly and feel happy, some independence is healthy. It can even keep the spark alive! Just be open about your needs and make sure you both feel fulfilled.

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Eating Disordersanswered 36 days ago

Sure, why not. As before you guyz are partners or in a relationship you have different lives and that's completely fine. It actually adds spice to your life as have different things to learn from each other.

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New Mothersanswered 33 days ago

if you want to have more time together, you can ask him if he wants to join you in art or stay together or go on trek on few weekends. But important for both to have that me time also where they can enjoy without their partner too especially when it's a rare planned group event like football as get-away since many are busy on weekdays.

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