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by Zanzanil Patel on Jun 22, 2023

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My friend constantly vents about her problems, but never listens to mine. It's draining. How do I set boundaries without feeling guilty?

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answered 584 days ago

ask yourself, are you born to be her vent person? do you have more to life? do you want more from life? it not about her venting. it's about your vision of life.

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