by SwastiGenztherapist on Oct 12, 2022
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Why do I sometimes find myself hoping my partner won't succeed in comforting me about my insecurities, like when I don't get that promotion at work or when I feel self-conscious about my appearance?
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Because sometimes, when we're feeling insecure, we might have mixed emotions. It could be that you're afraid of relying too much on your partner for validation. so it's a good thing
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It's always okay to seek validation and ressurance from your partner. Don't let your insecurities misguide you to feel like it's not okay to be insecure sometimes
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Hey, I am Pragya Arora, a clinical psychologist and I am here to help you navigate through your issues! Okay so, help me understand your situation here, are there any unsaid expectations that you have?
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Insecurities lead us to have mixed emotions and thoughts. Its normal ,dont fret on it!
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Hi. Hope you are doing well! My name is Sampada and I am a psychotherapist and an intimacy coach. I feel that yes, a partner is supposed to be a shoulder of comfort in times of distress. However, they may not always know how to make you feel better as they are human beings too after all. At times, they may not succeed in understanding what exactly you are going through and that’s very normal. In times like these, it’s important for you to be independent with regulating your emotions and getting in touch with yourself. A partner can just “be” there. And at times they may not. So in that case, i would suggest you take an effort towards getting in touch with yourself
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