Ideal VS Reallity of SEX Life

Actually for males, girlfriend cum wife is like a trophy. Once they achieve it, they don't feel to do anything extra for that. So you have to make him thrive for that. Till that time, explore yourself for self love. Find how you can get pleasure with clitoral stimulation and other things like sex toys. When your partner feels that he is no more important to you and you are happy yourself, then he will try to do anything for you. So just go away from him for sometime. Sometime silence speak louder. Also when he starts initiating, you can try teasing him. This will add special tadka to your bore sex life. Though you try all these and still If this is happening every time, it's quite possible that your partner need some counseling and treatment as he is low on desire. Then take him to any reputed Sexologist. Don't worry, It's completely treatable.

Time of sex actually can get affected by intensity of desire, surroundings, other factors like stress, etc. So just by doing once, you can't judge anyone. Also remember penetrative sex lasts for 5-15 minutes on average & still can satisfy Only 35% of woman. Females take time to set on fire, so males need to take extra efforts to fulfill her desire. He can try different forms of sex during foreplay like oral sex, mutual masturbation etc. You can have open discussion with your partner about your expectations and you can tell him to try other forms of sex also to fill in the gaps. He loves you so he will understand you. To increase his time, actually you can tell your partner to do Kegals to control pelvic floor muscles. This will help to do start - stop method to increase Be creative & a bit consistent while doing sex. Sex with big gaps can also make him ejaculate early. Try different positions also. If still his time is less, then you can consult with Sexologist for his treatment.

After some years in an intimate relationship, both partners start feeling low on desire. Because We start taking each other for granted. Our stress, kids responsibility and other family matters become our priority. We stop doing anything romantic for our partner. Remember each relationship require special efforts to keep the spark alive. Still you can try to take your sex life on track: Start taking some time for you both to interact daily. Start trying other forms of intimacy like curdling, holding hands,etc. Reduce screentime and take a walk while chatting. Sex should not be limited to your bedroom only. You can still tell your partner that you love him by teasing/touching erogenically. Start enjoying achievements and shearing burden of stress. Always have open discussion about what you want in sex. Try new positions, oral sex, mutual masturbation etc to remove the boredom of your sex life. Start dating each other again. Go on vacation regularly.

Causes of low Libido can be psychological or relationship issues, some medical conditions like diabetes, hypothyroidism, chronic illness or if you are under certain medications like anti- depressant. Even if you are taking oc pills/ birth control pills for long-term, it can also reduce your desire. First find your reason. Work on self exploration and self pleasure. Tell your partner to do it for you. In return you can do certain things for him. Go on dating again. Don't underestimate importance of cuddling, hand holding etc. Sped some quality time with him daily and/weekly, reducing screen time. If medical reasons are there, consult your Sexologist for counseling and treatment. Remember, प्यार करने का तरिका पसंद ना आये तो तरीका बदलो| जिससे प्यार करते हो उसे मत बदलो!