Healing Daddy Issues
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I know my dad's issues stemmed from his own childhood trauma. It doesn't excuse his behavior, but it helps me to understand it. I feel empathy towards him which is hampering my mental health. How do I deal with it?
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I drew boundaries with him. That meant a) telling him his behaviour bothered me b) Created physical distance. c) nurtured my connection with myself. When he continued to do what he was doing, second gear of boundaries came into place that meant loving myself more and making hard choices. So not doing what I did in the past, no more excuses for his bad behaviour. Form boundaries and distance for disrespect helped me conserve my energy.
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I thought I was 'over' my daddy issues, but they started coming up again in my current relationship. It's a reminder that healing is a lifelong process. That sounds exhausting to me....
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Yes healing is a journey, not a destination. why the issues are c9ming up again is because subconsciously you are conditioned to think or behave a certain way, and how much ever you work on it, in the most vulnerable states one tends to go back to the conditioned patterns
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I grew up trying to win my dad's approval. Now, I people-please in all my relationships, neglecting my own needs. How do I prioritize myself and set healthy boundaries?
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Hello, the fact that you realise this , know the root cause of it and are willing to change is in itself a huge progress. Next would be listing down on a paper what your values are and what you are comfortable with. When you know this it will be easy for you to say no or keep distance from people and situations you are not comfortable with. hope it helps.
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I find it challenging to establish healthy boundaries with my father, who tends to be overbearing and intrusive. It feels like any attempt to set limits is met with resistance or guilt. I'm looking for advice on how others have successfully approached this delicate task—balancing the need for personal space while maintaining a positive relationship.
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I find it challenging to establish healthy boundaries with my father, who tends to be overbearing and intrusive. It feels like any attempt to set limits is met with resistance or guilt. What should I do?
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Setting boundaries with a parent can be tough, especially if they're used to being involved in every aspect of your life. Start by calmly explaining your need for space and privacy. Be firm but kind, and stick to your boundaries even if there's pushback. It may take time for your father to adjust, but consistency is key. Seek support from friends or a therapist if needed, and remember that prioritizing your well-being is important.
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Certain situations or conversations with my father trigger intense emotional responses. I'm reaching out for advice on coping mechanisms and techniques others have found helpful in managing heightened emotions during challenging moments. How do you navigate emotional triggers and ensure your well-being?
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i Don't get in argument with the person who trigger me i keep limited conversation and boundaries with that family member
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Forgiving my father for past mistakes is a goal, but I also want to protect myself from potential hurt. I'm interested in hearing about others who have navigated the delicate balance between forgiveness and maintaining healthy boundaries. How did you decide when to open your heart and when to prioritize self-protection? @Natasha Singh
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What does this quote mean? Remember one thing, forgiveness is for self, not for others, right? There is nothing to lose when you follow your heart, everything to gain, from birth to death! Do you see this? Your visibility coach- Preetha Balakrishnan
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im in my early 20, and after moving out from home, i am now working two jobs, applying for masters and helping out in my family business. Even after all this, i rarely recieve any appreciation from my family and especially my dad, who keeps going on about how i’m “not doing enough” and how i’m “always procastinating”. it’s really hard keeping up with everything and maintaining a social life and remaining mentally sane. what more can i do to get some kind of approval or appreciation or even just get my efforts recognised? My dad has always expected the most out of me and i don’t think i can deliver anymore.. @Natasha Singh
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Don’t find your happiness in other , firstly you have to appreciate your self. Mental health as well important as physical heath Just do you work. , one he will understand . Don’t try to impress just build confidence in your self
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I have a lot of anger towards my dad, who is always negative and has a child-like attitude. A narcissistic man who never changed his ways. How can I overcome this? @Natasha Singh
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Try to have a one on one conversation with your father and make him understand. Don't worry, everything will be fine
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I really love my dad, but every time we were together by the end of the day we argue or fight. Why is this happening? It hurts. @Natasha Singh
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You need to respect different opinions in every relationship. No two individuals think alike is something we can't ignore
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