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Burası aşk, evlilik, ilişkiler ve bağlanma modellerini konuşacağımız, dertleşeceğimiz, çözümler üreteceğimiz yer. Tek taraflı bakmanın bizi sonuca götürmediğini bilerek, empatinin, şefkatin, şehvetin, onurlandırmanın olduğu ilişkileri nasıl inşa edebiliriz,işte tam olarak bu soruya cevaplar üreteceğiz. İdeal ilişki yoktur, ideal ilişkinin yaratımı vardır. Yaratımımız kutlu olsun cânım kadın. Hadi gel, beraber yolda gönlümüzü açalım, büyütelim, serpilelim. İlişki tohumlarımız göğe ulaşsın ! 🌴

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Sevgi Dilini Öğrenmek İster Misin ? Dr. Gary Chapman tarafından yazılan 5 sevgi dili kitabında şöyle bir anektod var; İnsanlarda 5 farklı sevgi dili var ve kişinin baskın sevgi dili hangisi ise sevgisini öyle gösteriyor ve sevildiğini ise o sevgi dili kendisine gösterildiğinde hissediyor. Gelin bu 5 farklı sevgi diline birlikte bakalım; 1 - Kelimeler ; Bu sevgi diline sahip kişiler, sevgilerini kelimelerle ifade etmeyi severler. Partnerlerine güzel sözcükler söyler, notlar yazar, över, sözcükleriyle desteklerler. Bu sevgi diline sahip biri için sözcükler çok önemlidir, olumsuz kelimeleri de unutmazlar. Böyle bir partneriniz varsa, ne kadar güzel olduğunu, hayatınızda olduğu için ne kadar şanslı hissettiğinizi, söylemek işe yarayacaktır. 2- Kaliteli zaman geçirmek; Bu sevgi diline sahip kişiler sevdikleri insanla birlikte aktivite yapmaktan çok hoşlanır. Satranç oynamak, kayak yapmak, bir kitabı okuyup sonra beraber yorumlamak gibi çift olarak biriktirebileceği anılara ve kaliteli zaman geçirmeye odaklanır. Sevgiyi bu etkinliklere gösterir ve sevildiğini , kendisine zaman ayırıldığında hisseder. Böyle bir partnere sahipseniz, konser bileti almak, birlikte doğa yürüyüşleri yapmak faydalı olabilir. 3- Hizmet eylemleri; Sevgi dili hizmet eylemleri olan partner, sevgiyi, sevdiği kişinin beğendiği yemekleri yaparak, ayakkabını tamire götürerek, hayatını kolaylaştırarak gösterir. Böyle bir partneriniz varsa, kuru temizlemeye takımını götürmek, onun için yemek hazırlamak işe yarayacaktır. 4- Hediye alma; sevgi dili hediye alma olan kişiler, sevildiklerini, düşünüldüklerini hissettiğinde anlarlar. Bu partneri mutlu etmek isterseniz, mağazada beğendiği bir parçayı almak, ona el yapımı hediyeler yapmak işe yarayacaktır. 5- Fiziksel temas; sevgisini dokunarak gösteren bu partnere, bol bol sarılmak, öpmek, koklamak, işe yaracaktır. Sizin sevgi diliniz nedir? Yorumlarda buluşalım cânım kadınlar. #sevgidili #ilişkiler #hediyealma #fizikseltemas #iltifat #aşk #kalitelizaman

Sevgi Dilini Öğrenmek İster Misin ?

Dr. Gary Chapman tarafından yazılan 5 sevgi dili kitabında şöyle bir anektod var; 

İnsanlarda 5 farklı sevgi dili var ve kişinin baskın sevgi dili hangisi ise sevgisini öyle gösteriyor ve sevildiğini ise o sevgi dili kendisine gösterildiğinde hissediyor.

Gelin bu 5 farklı sevgi diline birlikte bakalım;
1 - Kelimeler ; Bu sevgi diline sahip kişiler, sevgilerini kelimelerle ifade etmeyi severler. Partnerlerine güzel sözcükler söyler, notlar yazar, över, sözcükleriyle desteklerler. Bu sevgi diline sahip biri için sözcükler çok önemlidir, olumsuz kelimeleri de unutmazlar. Böyle bir partneriniz varsa, ne kadar güzel olduğunu, hayatınızda olduğu için ne kadar şanslı hissettiğinizi, söylemek işe yarayacaktır.
2- Kaliteli zaman geçirmek; Bu sevgi diline sahip kişiler sevdikleri insanla birlikte aktivite yapmaktan çok hoşlanır. Satranç oynamak, kayak yapmak, bir kitabı okuyup sonra beraber yorumlamak gibi çift olarak biriktirebileceği anılara ve kaliteli zaman geçirmeye odaklanır. Sevgiyi bu etkinliklere gösterir ve sevildiğini , kendisine zaman ayırıldığında hisseder. Böyle bir partnere sahipseniz, konser bileti almak, birlikte doğa yürüyüşleri yapmak faydalı olabilir. 
3- Hizmet eylemleri; Sevgi dili hizmet eylemleri olan partner, sevgiyi, sevdiği kişinin beğendiği yemekleri yaparak, ayakkabını tamire götürerek, hayatını kolaylaştırarak gösterir. Böyle bir partneriniz varsa, kuru temizlemeye takımını götürmek, onun için yemek hazırlamak işe yarayacaktır.
4- Hediye alma; sevgi dili hediye alma olan kişiler, sevildiklerini, düşünüldüklerini hissettiğinde anlarlar. Bu partneri mutlu etmek isterseniz, mağazada beğendiği bir parçayı almak, ona el yapımı hediyeler yapmak işe yarayacaktır.
5- Fiziksel temas; sevgisini dokunarak gösteren bu partnere, bol bol sarılmak, öpmek, koklamak, işe yaracaktır. 
Sizin sevgi diliniz nedir? Yorumlarda buluşalım cânım kadınlar. # # # # # # #
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Aynı anda ikisine sahip olabiliyor muyuz bilmiyorum 😅 ama kesinlikle 1 ve 5 ☺️

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Evet elbette birden fazla sevgi dilimiz olabilir ☺️

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