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هدفي اني اساعدك في رحلتك علي اكتشاف نفسك، وتغير حياتك لحياة هادية وسعيدة. 🩷🌿

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حبيت احكى شيء جوايا مش عارفة الاقى حل. ليه وهو انى مش عارفة اخرج من عالمى القديم طليقى... وعلاقة البنات بأبوهم .. دلوقتى مشكلتى انى مبقتش باتحمل اتحمله لاغية كرامتى بمقابل كرامة البنات وشكلهم قدام الناس مش عاوزة اتنازل عن نفسى تانى قرفت مجاملات فوق طاقتى من مقابلات اهله ووجوده ف حياتى باسم الاب اللى بيحتوى بناته كرهت انى اكون مطلقة مميزة ...وف المقابل اعصابى وكرامتى وكاريرى ونفسى انا بقالى عشر سنين مش لاقيه نفسى الحقيقية طول الوقت دايسة نفسى واحتياجاتى المادية والمعنوية والنفسية ..صح عشان بناتى بس زهقت وقرفت لما بشوف ف بناتى تصرفاتهم دا كفيييل يقفلى يومى ويمكن يقفلنى من البنات كمان الى بيسمعنى كدا دلوقتى بيقول انى مش منطقية ومتحولة نفسيا نتيجة لحسد او غيره بس لااااء. انا طول الوقت واعية كويس جدا ان دا فوووق طاقتى بس كنت بقول طالما قادرة أتخطى مفيييش مشكلة النهاردة مابقيتش قادرة اتحمل تطفلهم اللى انا سمحت بيه باخد قرار حاليا بخروجهم من بيتى وكيان بناتى وكيانى. وماسمحش لحد بالتدخل ف حياتى وانهم يبقى على دراية بظروف بناتى واحوالى معاهم مش خوف من القرار إطلاقا ولكن كنت بحس بامان ف وجودهم.تجاه البنات اللى بعوزه بيتعمل بس انا ما بقيتش طايقة اشوفهم او اسمعهم (((انا سيبت بيتى وانا ماكنتش عاوزة أسيبه وداااا علشان انا مابحبش الفشل ولا احساس الفشل مش عشان كان عندى اللى يخلينى اتمسك بيهم ومسكى بيهم دلوقتى عشان كنت بحاول اقتصر خسارات الفشل عليا انا لوحدى من غير ما القرار ياثر على البنات )))) كنت بحاول بكل ما املك التغاضى عن اى. شىء هاياثر عليهم بالسلب...

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مبسوطة إن حد سامعنى ومبسوطة باهتمامك بالرد على مشكلتى❤️ بس انا من جوة قلبى طول الوقت خايفة على ارتباطهم اللى انا تعبت وخلقته بينهم انا خايفة يجيب نتيجة عكسية وخاصة إن مش بفكر بسطحية طول الوقت باحسب للخطوات بدقة مميتة ف تلااقينى بدور على عيوب خطواتى قبل ما تخطيها ولو فيها شيى يسقط بالضرر حتى ولو طفيف على البنات بتراجع كتييير باسعى عشان اعمل كارير لنفسى وخائفة اتاخد منهم باهتمامات مع الوقت احس انها كانت وااااهية واندم

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اولاً احب أشكرك اوي علي شجاعتك طلما قررتي انك تيجي تكتبي مشكلتك هنا ف انتي ست قويه وبتحب نفسها ودي في حد ذاتها خطوه حلوه اوي في انك تلاقي نفسك الحقيقيه زي ما انتي بتقولي♥️، هتلاقي نفسك الحقيقيه طول ما انتي مخلياها اولويه نفسك ليها حق عليكي ومتقلقيش مش بالسنين انتي متأخرتيش ولا حاجه ودا احسن قرار اخذتيه ، مبدأيا كدا مش عايزاكي تلومي نفسك علي اللي فات ولا علي التنازلات الكتير انتي عملتي بأصلك المحترم، نوقف بقي كل دا ونبدأ خطوه جديده ومتبصيش علي اللي فات انتي كدا ماشيه صح و دا حقك انتو انفصلتم يعني هو ملوش حق انو يدخل البيت ولا يعرف حاجه عنك انتي صح انتي ليكي حياتك الخاصه ومحدش ليه دعوه بيها، اياً كان ايه الاتفاق بيشوف البنات كام يوم بس الأيام دي تبقي بره مش عندك في البيت ، الوقت كفيل يخليكي تنسي الفتره دي صدقيني وانتي بدأتي اهو في رحله حب الذات ركزي علي نفسك اكتر وطوري من نفسك وصدقيني هي مسأله وقت بس وكل دا مش هيبقي فارق معاكي حتي تصرفات ولادك بتقولي نفس تصرفاته ودا بيضيقك ساعتها مش هتضايقي انتي محتاجه تتعافي بس من الفتره دي انما هما مش مدينك فرصه عشان في حياتك علي طول

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بجد انا عايزه اقولك ان مشوفتش حد قوي زيك كده قبل كده انتي قدها بجد 💜💜💜

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