hey ! I have one year of relationship with my husband and we have a kit as well one month year old . now his mother is pressurising him for the divorce and using tricks for brain washing . I don't know when and where my husband is changed for me . he is with his mother . he and his mother called me characterless and worthless for everything. please suggest what should I do now ? sometime I think for divorce but sometime I think that our family will resolve it . please help !
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・commented 297 days ago
Hi. Hope you are doing well. I am really sorry that you have to go through this. Sounds super traumatic :( I feel it’s important for you to have an assertive and straightforward conversation about this with your husband and MIL. Keep the tone as calm as possible, maintain eye contact and try to understand why they are doing what they are doing. Such issues always have reasons. It might be possible that during this conversation, they may be rude with you, but make sure you hold your ground and stay cool. Secondly, try to look for some social support like your side of the family or your friends. If you are unwilling to involve your family into this, then try to speak to some friends. In such situations, having a social circle really helps. If possible, try to seek therapy to cope with this better. Take care
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・commented 320 days ago
First identify what is the root cause of the problem if there is some misunderstandings, you should sort them as this is a big decision and if there are not and they're simply being evil them you should leave him and take the kid to raise him in a better household than this
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Pls have a sit down conversation with your husband or try counsel sessions. Its important to understand if he is ready to give the relationship a chance. If not, its important you take a calculative decision. Its important that your child has a life with happy parents.
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