Now a days relationships are disturbed so much due to Sexual problems. Myself Dr Kalpana Erande working as a Sexologist for Females and Infertility specialist. We at Dr Erande's Clinic in Mumbai and Pune help couples to resolve there sexual problems, to be happy and more Fertile. Doing sex is not a work, its one of our daily needs. It not only fulfill your desire, but also keep your hormones active so that you don't need to face fertility issues. So do enjoy sex regularly......for good fertility.Also Remember almost Half of population of world is having Vagina and Clitoris, but how many of them know about orgasm?I will try to introduce you all to this untouched part of your sexual self. Be part of this journey and become Rambha -Urvashi of your own life.
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why do couples tend to become physically apart and feel lonely after a couple of years of marriage??
Anything can become boring after a certain amount of time. We even get bored of our hobbies sometimes. That doesn't mean boredom is unhealthy. To learn how to navigate through this kindly join our psychologist on their live sessions
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I have vaginal dryness issue. even after roleplay, not get wet. it's time to consult to doctor or it is normal? I m 38 now. I practice masterbate also.
Consult a Sexologist for proper guidance and treatment of vaginal dryness. It can be due to lack of foreplay/passion is not in sync/relationship issues/you can have some hormonal imbalance or because of certain conditions like perimenopause, other diseases or medicines. Proper history taking to find reason and then accordingly treatment can be done.
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Ami akjon ke valo bashi tar sathe ki amar biye hobe tar name Kiran Dey
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hi all. I m away from my husband since last 8 years. coming year we will start stying together. now I 40 . we want to enjoy our sexlife. but i m worrid about menopausal homonal changes and all. My libido is good. can any one let me know menopausal age in India and how do i go about it with out disturbing my sex life.
fine thank you
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preventing vaginal dryness?
Consult a Sexologist for proper guidance and treatment of vaginal dryness. It can be due to lack of foreplay/passion is not in sync/ relationship issues/you can have some hormonal imbalance or because of certain conditions like perimenopause, mental health issues or other diseases and or it's medicines. Proper history taking is necessary to find reason and then accordingly treatment can be done.
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How should I initiate a conversation about BDSM with my husband if I'm interested in trying it but unsure of his thoughts on the matter?
Remember, communication is key in any relationship. When both of you in full mood, you can just start with,"चलो, आज कूछ तुफानी करते है|" Then he will ask- how? NOW approach the conversation with empathy, respect & a willingness to listen to your partner's perspective. You don't have to dive into the most intense aspects of BDSM right away. Begin by expressing your curiosity & interest in exploring new things together. Be honest about your desires & fantasies regarding BDSM, but also be prepared to listen to your partner's thoughts and feelings. It's essential to create a safe space for both of you to share openly without judgment. Take small steps & gradually explore BDSM activities together. Consider seeking outside resources such as books, online forums, or workshops to learn more and explore together. You can just start from role playing as a boss & employee. Then something from tying or blindfolding. Take small steps and gradually increase the intensity of dominance & submission
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mujhe mere pati se sex karna achha nhi lagta..
husband ke alawa kuch mat socho
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@Sexologist_DrKalps waiting for your live session . When are your sessions planned?
Take care dear
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Why do I struggle with intimacy due to my past trauma? And howcan I recover from it? I literally get chills down my spine whenever any male approaches me
Hi! 🩵 I completely get what you are going through and it’s normal. Trauma can negatively impact a lot of our life aspects, intimacy being one of them. When we go through a disturbing experience, getting intimate might not necessarily be the first thing that comes to our mind. So whatever you are experiencing is valid. To recover from trauma, you can engage in a couple of mindfulness meditation and journaling techniques. These techniques help our bodies come back from that past trauma and into the present moment. Seeking therapy also helps to a great extent as it helps us feel safe and validated. I encourage you to take things at your pace and not do anything that you feel uncomfortable doing. It’s okay for you to not want certain things at the moment. Let me know if you want to discuss this further and we can connect 🩵
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What role does testosterone, as a hormone associated with muscle growth, play in female libido, and how can I ensure it’s in balance for optimal sexual health?
Testosterone indeed plays a crucial role in female libido as well as muscles building, though it is present in smaller amounts compared to males. It enhances sexual desire, arousal, and satisfaction in women. To ensure optimal sexual health, maintaining a balance of testosterone is essential. To maintain it effectively: *Regular exercise -45 minutes daily, *healthy diet along with garlic and onion, dryfruits- almond, kishmish, figs etc. *stress management, and *sufficient sleep 7 hrs daily can help regulate testosterone levels. But in females with low libido, only boosting testosterone or testosterone supplement doesn't always work like in males. Some other factors are also matter like her relationship with partner, her overall health - mental and physical, hormones, diseases like Diabetes/hypothyroidism or mental health issues or its medicines. So always better to consult with your Sexologist
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Dominance Redefined: My look as a Muscular Dominatrix💪💪 In a world of stereotypes, I proudly embrace a powerful image: a muscular woman bodybuilder as a dominatrix, complete with handcuffs. This striking look represents my journey of strength, empowerment, and unapologetic confidence. The Dominatrix Persona The dominatrix symbolizes control and authority. By adopting this persona, I showcase my commanding presence. The handcuffs represent not just dominance but the power to lead and shape my destiny. Challenging Stereotypes This look defies traditional beauty norms, proving that strength and femininity can coexist. It’s a visual declaration that muscular women can be both powerful and sensual. Empowering Others I hope to inspire women to embrace their strength and pursue their passions. This image is a call to take control and lead with confidence, breaking free from societal constraints. My dominatrix look as a muscular bodybuilder is a celebration of empowerment and redefining femininity. It’s a bold statement of strength and control, inspiring others to embrace their own power and confidence.
@Sexologist_DrKalps this was for character dheela hai song😂😂
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waoo nice any idea enjoy the sax life spicy
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Exploring Our Dom-Sub Relationship: A Personal Journey For years, my husband has been a leader at work, always in control. However, he wanted to explore his submissive side and surrender to me. We’ve been in a dom-sub relationship for a few years now, exploring various kinks and fetishes together. One of our favorite activities is pegging. Many people mistakenly think that if a man enjoys being pegged, he must be gay. This is not true for us; it’s about the pleasure and connection it brings. My husband loves it, and it strengthens our bond. He finds immense pleasure in this experience, and I enjoy the control and intimacy it provides. Pegging has allowed us to connect on a deeper level. We encourage others to explore their desires and communicate openly with their partners. Don’t let stereotypes stop you from discovering new pleasures. Embrace your interests and have fun together.
@Sexologist_DrKalps thanks for explaining the science behind 😍😍. Always good to have fun knowing science behind. Looking to learn more from you. Hope you are doing well
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Hey girls, I would like to ask you one question? Is there any specific fantasy you have in your mind? Share it hear. Maybe be you couldn't share it anywhere nor can complete it in real. But sharing it can give you way to complete it in real or in imagination. We all can help each other to see each other's fantasies and may help to learn new ones. You can comment anonymously. So nobody is can judge you. So let's start to explore world of fantasies!🤗
Yeah we practice bdsm on regular basis
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Embracing Our Kinks: Our BDSM Journey In our quest for deeper intimacy, my husband and I have embraced a BDSM lifestyle where I am the Dom and he is my willing slave. This dynamic has brought us closer and allowed us to explore our desires openly and without judgment. Short glimpses of Our sex Room in video Inspired by the Netflix series How to Build a Sex Room, we created a dedicated space for our BDSM activities. Our sex room, designed together, has various BDSM furniture and tools, including a bed with cuffs, a cross for tying him up, and a collection of whips. These elements allow us to explore our kinks in a safe and consensual environment. Deepening Intimacy Our Dom/slave dynamic deepens our psychological and emotional connection. Each session reinforces our trust, respect, and understanding, bringing us closer and adding a new dimension to our relationship. Why You Shouldn’t Be Shy Talking about BDSM normalizes it as a healthy form of sexual expression. It clears up misconceptions and strengthens communication and trust. Embracing our kinks has empowered us to live authentically and strengthen our bond. Live Authentically We live our lives authentically, ignoring societal judgments. If you’re curious about exploring new dimensions of your relationship, embrace your desires with trust, consent, and open dialogue. Be yourself and live without fear or shame—just as we do.
Really appreciate sharing and also for encouraging couple's to explore together in a safe and consensual environment. Thanks a lot for sharing.
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Hey girls, Are you suffering from pain during sexual intercourse during your first attempt or during insertion of tampoon or menstrual cup or during your pelvic examination? This is called Vaginismus. Why does this happen? How to resolve it? Do you want to know the answers.... Join my live tomorrow on Coto at 4:30 pm on 19th March #vaginismus #sexual #womenproblems #cotocreator #sexualwellnes #vaginismustreatment #painfulencounter #UnconsumatedMarriage #couplecounseling #letstalk #BreakTheTaboo #OpenYourMind #askasexologist #BestSexologist
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I want sex enjoy with my relatives
Then what is the problem?🤗
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I work a 9-5 job and travel 2 hours to and fro from work. My husband is very upset that I am unable to give him time. I'm struggling to balance work and my personal life. How can I create a healthier work-life balance?
You should keep a specific time where you are giving time just to him. just keep half an hour or some time where you spend it just with him. maybe u both can make dinner together or watch a movie in the night.
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