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How to talk about sex and sexuality with children . - Tips to start the conversations around Safety , consent , relationship , sexuality , body image , porn etc - Sex Ed for all .

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Why do "balls" equate to toughness and "pussy" equates to weakness when even the slightest flick to the "nuts" sends a guy to his knees and vaginas can push out an entire human being?

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when will I conceive baby boy trying for last 1year will I get baby boy
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Why do "balls" equate to toughness and "pussy" equates to weakness when even the slightest flick to the "nuts" sends a guy to his knees and vaginas can push out an entire human being?
Though it seems it was meant to treat women weak, that's some serious Wordplay and jokes on toxic Masculinity and misogyny!!
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Good morning everyone. The joy of being a parent or having a child is unexplainable. There are many reasons for infertility. To know more about infertility and its treatment in Ayurveda, please connect with me on live from 10am -1pm on coto.
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hey everyone, how long you all are trying to conceive.?
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I am a 34 year female and me and my husband are trying to conceive however I don't want to leave excercise to do that but my husband says it's difficult to conceive if I am working out. also he wants a baby but I don't but he is very much looking forward to have one. I am so badly stuck in between of what I want and what he wants what should I do?how do I tell him what I want I am afraid of hurting him.
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You don't have to leave exercising to conceive. This is a misconception. Yes, excessive exercise without a nutritious diet might impact your menstrual cycles, but regular exercise is a must for healthy menstrual cycles. As for not wanting a child right now, it is best to openly communicate your desires with your husband. You might also want to evaluate when you wish to have a child or not have children at all and discuss this with your partner as well. Having a child if you are not ready can make you resent the process and also be resentful to your husband. Which makes open communication about this crucial.
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Doğururken Neden Bağırırız Kadının tamamen dışardan öğrendiği doğum algısıdır, doğumda bağırma. Doğuma bakış açısı, her dönemde kültürel yapıdan fazlasıyla etkilenmiştir. Özellikle Anadolu da kadınlar kendilerini ifade etmek için doğurganlığı ve doğumu fazlasıyla kullanmıştır. Eşiyle birlikte yapabildiği tek paylaşımın sexs olması, çocuk sayısının gücü temsil etmesi ,kadını kuluçka makinasına çevirmiştir. Gebelik boyunca kendisine verilen değerin artması, doğum eyleminde ki çığlık gösterisi ile taçlandırılarak, kadının doğum anı savaş meydanına çevrilmiştir. Elbette ki doğum bedenen ve ruhen çok büyük bir eylem. Hatta bana sorarsanız ruhani bir ayin olarak tanımlarım. Ama bir çok kadın doğumda sesini etraftakiler duyacak kadar yükselterek acılar içinde kıvrandığını göstermiş ve ilgiyi üzerine çekmeyi başarmıştır. Öğrenilmiş bir davranış olarak kadınlar bağırarak doğurulacağını düşünmüş ve doğumdan korkmuştur. Sadece kendileri değil gelecek nesli de korkutmuştur. Hatta bu korku ilerleyen zamanda kadınların birçoğunu sezaryen doğuma teşfik etmiştir. Bu gün Türkiye de sezaryen doğumların bu kadar artmasında doğum algısının dizi, filmlerde bile bu algıyla işlenmesi yatar. Oysaki anatomik olarak pelvik kaslar çene kaslarına bağlı olduğu için kadın bağırarak bebeğini itemez, ısrarla bağırmaya devam ediyorsa müdahaleler başlar (kristal manevrası, epizyotomi, vakum…) gibi. Sıfır sesiz olması da beklenmiyor kadınlardan; inleme, tıslama, puflama gibi vücut sesleri elbette olacak. Ama avazınız çıktığı kadar bağırmak değil. Sonuç olarak doğum anında bağırdığınızda süreç için hiçbir faydası olmadığı gibi aksine doğumun seyri doğal akışından tamamen sapar. Birde bu yetmez gibi doğum sonu ekstra bir boğaz ağrısı yaşarsınız.
Benim için çok aydınlatıcı bir yazı oldu 💜
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كنت عملت فحص من سنة و٦شهور تقريبا وطلع عندى اورام حميدة مكنتش لسة اتجوزت .. حاليا انا متجوزة بقالى سنة والاورام دى بتكبر وبقت محسوسة اكتر من الأول .. اولا هى ممكن الاورام الحميدة تتحول لخبيثة؟؟ ثانيا انا حاليا بفكر فى الانجاب ، هل الاورام دى ممكن تأثر ع الرضاعة؟؟ ثالثًا هل تغير الهرمونات مع الحمل تخلى المشكلة تزيد؟
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