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Hello, I'm simran from Amritsar. Till today I only had bad relationships that I don't want to remember either. I don't know how to recognise such people. How can I better recognize red flags early on? @Preetha_Balakrishnan
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Ok Simran! Thanks for sharing. Red flags could be: 1) Talk about your ambition and that you would like to head an organisation, team, business and see the person's reaction? Is he supportive? Try to guage how does he feel if your salary would be more than him, would he be open to stay at home and take care of children and let the wife work? 2) Also, see how his reaction is on the kind of clothes you choose to wear. How cool is he about it? Short skirts etc? 3) On household chores is he willing to be a partner to that? 4) Try to Guage on how was he brought up? Does his father help his mother in the household chores.. Some checkpoints. Still you may not be able to assess, but see how he reacts and what is his attitude towards all of these? Ask relevant questions around this. Pls join me LIVE at 5:00 PM, the topic being Is visibility important? Be there, See you! Tc, Preetha
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