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by Nazneen Batliwala on Oct 19, 2023

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today a coworker asked me what my plans for valentine’s day were. we’re not friends, we’re not even close coworkers. how did they assume it was okay to ask me a personal questions about my dating life? im not seeing anyone at the moment, but i don’t like the idea that my entire office is in on my business. am i being over sensitive? or was i right to get a little defensive?

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answered 480 days ago

It's understandable to feel uncomfortable when a coworker asks personal questions about your dating life, especially if you're not close. You're not being oversensitive; it's natural to want to maintain privacy at work. It's okay to politely deflect the question or simply say you don't have any special plans. Setting boundaries around personal topics is important to maintain a professional environment.

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answered 479 days ago

You were absolutely right to feel violated of your personal life. But even you must understand that this is the valentine's week and everybody's curious about people surrounding themselves. Maybe they even wanted to try on you 😉

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answered 479 days ago

Honestly I feel that you are overreacting coz he just asked about your valentine plans. you could have just replied by saying I would not like to share or no plans. he was just trying to ask your plans. nothing else. I don't think that he had an intention of invading your privacy.

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