Doğururken Neden Bağırırız Kadının tamamen dışardan öğrendiği doğum algısıdır, doğumda bağırma. Doğuma bakış açısı, her dönemde kültürel yapıdan fazlasıyla etkilenmiştir. Özellikle Anadolu da kadınlar kendilerini ifade etmek için doğurganlığı ve doğumu fazlasıyla kullanmıştır. Eşiyle birlikte yapabildiği tek paylaşımın sexs olması, çocuk sayısının gücü temsil etmesi ,kadını kuluçka makinasına çevirmiştir. Gebelik boyunca kendisine verilen değerin artması, doğum eyleminde ki çığlık gösterisi ile taçlandırılarak, kadının doğum anı savaş meydanına çevrilmiştir. Elbette ki doğum bedenen ve ruhen çok büyük bir eylem. Hatta bana sorarsanız ruhani bir ayin olarak tanımlarım. Ama bir çok kadın doğumda sesini etraftakiler duyacak kadar yükselterek acılar içinde kıvrandığını göstermiş ve ilgiyi üzerine çekmeyi başarmıştır. Öğrenilmiş bir davranış olarak kadınlar bağırarak doğurulacağını düşünmüş ve doğumdan korkmuştur. Sadece kendileri değil gelecek nesli de korkutmuştur. Hatta bu korku ilerleyen zamanda kadınların birçoğunu sezaryen doğuma teşfik etmiştir. Bu gün Türkiye de sezaryen doğumların bu kadar artmasında doğum algısının dizi, filmlerde bile bu algıyla işlenmesi yatar. Oysaki anatomik olarak pelvik kaslar çene kaslarına bağlı olduğu için kadın bağırarak bebeğini itemez, ısrarla bağırmaya devam ediyorsa müdahaleler başlar (kristal manevrası, epizyotomi, vakum…) gibi. Sıfır sesiz olması da beklenmiyor kadınlardan; inleme, tıslama, puflama gibi vücut sesleri elbette olacak. Ama avazınız çıktığı kadar bağırmak değil. Sonuç olarak doğum anında bağırdığınızda süreç için hiçbir faydası olmadığı gibi aksine doğumun seyri doğal akışından tamamen sapar. Birde bu yetmez gibi doğum sonu ekstra bir boğaz ağrısı yaşarsınız.
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