I am facing issues and don't understand what has gone wrong. I have been married since 9years where 2.5 were so toxic as I was living with my in-laws which I feel has impacted my relationship with my husband. we moved out of Mumbai away from my in laws to Gurgaon n since 2017 we both are living away from them. Our relationship has improved but it's just I don't get those sexual urges and we haven't had sex since so many years. Need clarity n help on what has gone wrong.

by nnikittadudannii on Nov 30, 2022

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Radiantleo_2024 posted 303 days ago

I am facing issues and don't understand what has gone wrong. I have been married since 9years where 2.5 were so toxic as I was living with my in-laws which I feel has impacted my relationship with my husband. we moved out of Mumbai away from my in laws to Gurgaon n since 2017 we both are living away from them. Our relationship has improved but it's just I don't get those sexual urges and we haven't had sex since so many years. Need clarity n help on what has gone wrong.

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Everything is an effort, it's important to create and environment and be in that zone consciously in whatever you do. Whether sex or otherwise! It gets tougher if an attempt towards that direction has not been done! Keep your ego aside and try romancing!

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Toxic environment takes a toll on us overall. this is what we call PTSD. Sexula relationship will take some time to built again. till then take time to heal yourself first. talk with your partner and help him see where you stand. indulge in couples activities like role play, dates, traveling that increases harmony between you both

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