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by Smita Bansal on Dec 19, 2022

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Do you think that as a teenage mom of 2 girls I should be stalking them on Instagram and other social media handles. What If they feel that I am invading their privacy ? I just want to make sure that they are protected and nor under any bad influence. What should I do ?

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answered 294 days ago

While it's natural to be concerned for your daughters' well-being, open communication is key. Instead of stalking, engage in honest conversations about online safety, potential risks, and responsible social media use. Establishing trust and discussing their experiences will likely make them feel more comfortable sharing with you. Balancing protection with respect for their privacy can foster a healthier parent-child relationship.

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answered 294 days ago

You can be friendly and open with them so that they share things with you rather than staking on social media

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