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I am hooking up with a guy who is not very financially stable when compared to my friend’s boyfriend, shall it impact my relationship??

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WellnessCoach_AmanvirKaur

New Mothersanswered 45 days ago

Hi dear What gets you into comparing your bf s financial status with your friends bf? Can you be a bit more detailed?

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Na_Dia

answered 44 days ago

Why are you comparing, it's not fair. Try to figure out your things without comparison

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New Mothersanswered 41 days ago

Financial instability can lead to higher stress levels and present challenges to effective communication and long-term planning, which can strain a relationship.

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answered 41 days ago

It is important to address any financial concerns or differences early on in a relationship. This can include having open and honest conversations about finances, setting financial goals together, and working on financial planning and budgeting as a team.

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