by Jyothi Srinivas on Oct 5, 2022
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i applied to oxford for grad studies. didn’t get it. knew i overshot and nearly convinced myself that i wouldn’t get in anyway. it was just a trick shot and it didn’t work. but it still somehow feels like shit. idk my productivity hasn’t been great lately and this just hits the nail in the coffin. how do i even pick myself up. i need to still finish some applications and have no motivation to even start. im so lost about my future. i will still be doing my masters but at my backup university. and i know im better than that. i also feel like im gonna be seen as less if i continue where im studying now instead of trying for a more esteemed institution. how do i even move forward??
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・answered 309 days ago
Hi! It is said, if you start your day with thinking, it leads to overthinking! BUT If you start your day with thanking, it leads to over thanking! Choose yours! Yes, you seem to be over thinking! See what you can do, rather what you can't and get going with the day! See if this works. You have it in you, YES! Your visibility Coach, Preetha
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hi Appearing for exams unprepared and not doing well brings your self esteem down... Therefore it's important to prepare yourself before hand whether it be an exam, interview etc. As for your productivity going down.. are you preoccupied? still thinking about past failures? Identify and make a concious decision to not dwell on the past failures. Past is over and gone and so has that failure! Every day we get a gift of 24 hours .. make the best use of it , live in the present upgrade your skills where required. Make a list where you need to apply. plan a schedule how many applications to go every day. At this point don't fret about your future.. If you take care of your present future will be taken care. it important you apply with a positive Mindset .. and you can do that!!!! Finish this task and connect again we will set your future goals 😊👍
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As far as I know, you can transfer your credits to the University of your choice by performing great at the current one. If Oxford is really where you want to be, then keep going for it. Just check with yourself, why Oxford - is it your dream or someone else’s ? That will give you some clarity.
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