Meri Marzi community's profile image

by Mona Singh on Jan 21, 2023

Members icon

3921 members

Members icon

2862 posts

✊ Social Impact
Women Empowerment
Women Empowerment

I feel like being successful as a woman in India is equal to a crime. So, I've been told I'm too ambitious and intimidating, especially in relationships. How do I own my ambition without being seen as 'too much' or 'unfeminine'? It's like, I want to go after my goals without feeling like I have to tone it down to fit in. have you faced something like this??

answers icon

4

like giflove gif

7

add reaction icon

Answer

Answer icon

n

453d

nanc

answered 453 days ago

You be yourself girl. Don't seek any kind of validation from the society. ❤️✨

Upvote icon

0

like gif

1

add reaction icon

Comment

Answer icon

A

453d

Anonymous

answered 453 days ago

being too ambition and too intimidating is never a bad thing. i think it scares people and they start seeing you as equal competition, which is one of the places where this insecurity comes from. and you’ve managed to accomplish this without losing your femininity because this has come natural to you. so why stop now? when it comes to a relationships, you are probably not with the right person if they can appreciate you for who you are and support you in your ambition.

Upvote icon

0

like gif

1

add reaction icon

Comment

Answer icon

G

453d

GitikaChandra

answered 453 days ago

yes, yes I have always faced this and continue to face it. People judge you left, right and centre and make comments that no one asked for. What I have learnt is to be who you want to be irrespective of their stupid opinions. you will also find many people are afraid of the feminine power. Till the time she is small and under someone's ( read , a man) wing till that time, it's okay, when she spreads her own wings that's the time all these so called 'Men and moral Women' come out to tell you, your place. You, kindly give them the middle finger and keep going. ;)

Upvote icon

0

like gif

1

add reaction icon

Comment

Answer icon
Creator profile picture

439d

MindsetbyMeenal

answered 439 days ago

At some point we women go through this whether it's coming from your work place or from your Homefront.. Care a dammm... do what you thought is right... I have always done that ... my family has always been very very supportive!

Upvote icon

0

add reaction icon

Comment

Answer icon

More Questions Like This

Trending iconTop discussion
Priyanka Sawant mam kha h aap ayenge ya ni??
Check out please
You are no showing please I want to talk
Trending iconTop discussion
pooja ma'am aap kabh aaoge?
aap thik hoooo?????
I will come today live around 6 pm.
Trending iconTop discussion
ma'am kaha ho aap??????
Anonymous-27d
don't comment here!!!!!!
hy
Trending iconPopular opinion
My cuzn got divorced 3 months back. His wife was emotionally abusive and manipulative. Somehow she isolated him from everybody including family. The internet talks so much about narcissistic men but let me tell you, women too can have narcissistic personality disorder. Now I want to know, How is the life of a divorced man in India?@RC_Mayanka
Anonymous-20d
It can come as a surprise but not all men are living happily and not all women are in misery. They both have their problems and struggles. It's just about the pov
It is true that both men and women can be narcissist, but yes it is talked about most in men. as for life of a divorced man, things might be little tough when he wishes to get married again, as people will find it hard to believe that he was abused. other than that most things should be ok for him.
Trending iconPopular opinion
Why does divorce/separation affect some women’s self-esteem and confidence? @RC_Mayanka
Anonymous-18d
Ofcourse maximum women has some expectations from the relationship, women might build up their future with that person. By separation or divorce, women couldn't see the future and their dreams suddenly.. it must be empty when the person goes off from the life. Coz of that emptiness women effects psychological disturbance. In that situation they feel lack of confidence or self esteem. How long it's continue will be depends on the person.
RC_Mayanka-18d
Marriage is not just a bond between two bodies....they get attached emotionally and mentally. Its is really difficult for a person to detach from someone you loved so much. When you are trying to give your 100 percent and your partner does not care about it. Then a women's self esteem and confidence shakes.
Trending iconTop discussion
I want to know abt work from home for housewives...
sikun-11d
Hi dear want to know about wfh opportunity for hw pls dm me on my what's app number 9861973491
hello
Trending iconPopular opinion
pooja ma'am aaj aaoge na????
Yes I will come live today at 7 pm.
Anonymous-18d
aj aaegi maam
Trending iconPopular opinion
Always known I was different, but never had the courage to explore it. Now that I'm retired, I'd love to connect with other LGBTQ+ women, especially older folks like myself. Any suggestions for LGBTQ+ senior groups in India?
Humsafar Trust is one of India's oldest organisations that has been advocating for the rights and the health of LGBTQ+ individuals in India since 1993. Twice every month, they host meet-ups and workshops to bring the community together and socialise. Apart from this, the good folks at Humsafar also provide legal and psychological aid to those in distress. In cases of extortion, blackmail, or to help you through the 'coming out' phase, these are the people you can trust without any qualms. They conduct a bunch of workshops as well so do keep a check on their social media handles and website for the same. You can also search online for local LGBTQA communities and join their workshop or discussion groups. More power to you and Best of luck for the future! 👍
more power to you, I am not aware of any, but for younger folks have some
Trending iconPopular opinion
pooja ma'am urgent!!!! ye rhi rings please live aajao naaa ek baar mujhe baat Krna hai
The middle one with no design and cuts. Pure Silver to wear it in your left hand thumb.
Anonymous-19d
aai thiiii
Trending iconPopular opinion
Mothers are the backbone of families and societies across the globe. They sacrifice so much for their children. On this Mother's Day, what powerful words of gratitude and love would you share with all the amazing mothers out there? What message could we send that truly honors the unconditional love and dedication they show every single day?
Anonymous-4d
Dear Mom, I just wanted to take a moment to let you know how much I appreciate and love you. Your endless support, love, and guidance have shaped me into the person I am today. Thank you for always being there for me, no matter what. I am truly grateful to have you as my mother. Love you always."
Anonymous-3d
“Right from the start, you were the one who nurtured me, prayed over me, worried about me, guided me and supported me in every pursuit. Thank you for being there every day with just the love I needed.”

Trending creators for you

See more iconSee All
keerthi's profile picture
keerthiyadav
Literature

i am keerthi yadav from andhrapradesh, indiamore

a

adriftholothete754
Health Issues

more

Trending communities for you

See more iconSee All
SAYge Real Stories community profile picture
✊ Social Impact

Real stories. Real wisdom.more

HT

✊ Social Impact

I want to help female to make self independence .housewife n students to ur work n make self identify more

Urban Chudails community profile picture
✊ Social Impact

more

India's Lesbian Community community profile picture
✊ Social Impact

This blog post will give you some inspiration for celebrating Pride with your online followers by sharing quotes and memes. Also, look no further for ideasWhile the LGBTQ community gears up for in-person events, this group can help you show your pride online. Almost any real-life community can find its analogue online, but the importance of the Internet the lesbian community is profound. LGBTQ people have long found a home on the Internet, connecting with likeminded people all around the country and the world. Online lesbian communities help people feel less alone, especially if they’re not out to their families or can’t safely come out where they live. For as long as online communities have existed, lesbian folks have used them to meet friends, lovers, and build unflappable networks centered around shared pride.more

HW

✊ Social Impact

https://youtube.com/@SurbhiJainofficial?si=_hiE6w9HyHVaY4Cf please subscribe my YouTube channelmore

आइए ख़ुद से बात करें community profile picture
✊ Social Impact

कब तक दूसरो के लिए जिएंगे।। कब तक दूसरो से expect करगे।। कब तक खुद को robit समझोगे।। बस अब किसी की नहीं सुननी।। आइए ख़ुद की सुने और ख़ुद की करे।। आइए अपनी जिंदगी जिए ।।more

T

✊ Social Impact

more

बुलंद आवाज़ community profile picture
✊ Social Impact

यह कम्युनिटी महिलाओं के लिए एक सामुदायिक मंच है, जहां हम महिलाओं के सामाजिक परिवर्तन पर चर्चा, जानकारी और बातचीत करते हैं। हम सभी महिलाओं को संगठित करके उनकी शक्ति और प्रभाव को बढ़ाने का लक्ष्य रखते हैं। यहाँ हम एक-दूसरे को प्रेरणा और समर्थन देते हैं ताकि हम सब मिलकर एक बेहतर और समाजसेवी समाज बना सकें। आइए, साथ चलें और एक आवाज़ बनाएं जो महिलाओं के सामाजिक परिवर्तन में महत्वपूर्ण योगदान को प्रमोट करती है। 💪💖✨"more

Safar Women of Delhi NCR community profile picture
✊ Social Impact

more

Feminist of Bollywood community profile picture
✊ Social Impact

more