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by ShrutiHaasan on Oct 7, 2022

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Since time immemorial and even today , Women who break social norms of any kind are labelled as Chudails, witches, & dayans. But its time to claim these titles with pride. 👯‍♀️ We are modern enchantresses who are not afraid speak our minds, defy expectations,or challenge the status quo. I am a proud UrbanChudail, you ?🧙‍♀️🧹 #UrbanChudails #DefyExpectations #ProudWitchyWomen

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Surrogacyanswered 150 days ago

I am also one of the Urban Chudail then. Being female Sexologist, I have broke some stereotypes which some of my friends or relatives don't digest easily. But my husband is always supportive. Right now I check only female patients. I always ask them , why you should always see from a male's perspective. A woman can be treated by a woman very well, as she understands a woman's psychology very well. But there are some women patients who want to consult a male Sexologist only. They go to my husband and ultimately for proper counseling again sent to me.

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Totally love the name urban chudail and love the idea , Totally claiming my power with pride and my femininity as against getting embarrassed about someone saying u are bossy yes deal with I have leadership skills …. And so many more like these are thrown at our faces just cz we speak our mind and have choices, but it’s awesome not to share , break the stereotypes and own your magic

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So am I... I have always done what people don't expect me to do…

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I would say that being an independent girl who got education I am an urban chudail. I challenged the stereotypes of society that women should not get education

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