Guilty pleasures

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Hi,You need to take care about your feelings and also need to counter those conflicts which bothers you.You can have a open discussion with your boyfriend.

It's really nice to hear that you don't want to hurt your partner's ego. This has to be our attitude towards our relationship. Are you trying any other forms of sex- like oral, anal, etc. If not then start doing it & make him aware that there are some other things which are more pleasurable other than penetrative sex. Make him also experience them & want to be innovative in sex life. Let him also be ready to do new experiments in sex life. Then one day, you can just explore world of sex toys in front of him as a new adventure and insist to try for this new experiment. Here you can insist like a child for this one. There are some sex toys for males also. You both can order at a time & experience a new world of joy and believe me, you will love to watch your partner experencing it. It will be a new horizon of pleasure for both of you. Just continue to enjoy each other's company as in future you might need to more try of new forms of intimacy with same partner. He will support you

Only 35% females get satisfied by penetrative sex. Rest either stop trying or explore more options. But have you tried different positions like cow Girl/reverse cow girl, Doggy style, etc. If not explore them. You can try for mutual masturbation like clitoral stimulation, G spot stimulation etc. You can try oral sex- Cunnilingus(sucking and playing with female genital with tongue)/fallatio(orally sucking his penis), analingus(mouth to anus) or anal sex also. You can try Kinking experience like Dominance & submission. You can try role play along with all of these. Both of you can read erotic novels and even can see some soft porns. Last but not the least - sex toys. Use of sex toys and vibrators will add a different flavour to your sex life. Sex can be done by so many ways and it should include different permutations and combinations changing every time. If you keep exploring, it won't be boring.

If you have pain during sex, there could be variety of reasons for it. To confirm, you have to visit a Sexologist/ gynecologist. If pain is just because of dryness, just use of proper lube with sufficient foreplay will be helpful. In menopause, some more medicines are also required as per need along with partner's support. If Vaginismus is the reason, you need to work out to remove fear/anxiety around penetration, gradual dilatation by fingering/dialators and use of lubes are most important factors. But if any structural problem like cervical polipe, endometriosis, adenomyosis etc can be the reason, need to be treated accordingly. Vaginal infection is also one of the reasons and needs immediate attention. In short you have to hurry to visit doctor to diagnose and treat the underlying cause. And when it comes to partner, you have to have an open discussion about it with him and he need to involve in it's correction.

Break up 💔 is not the end of life. It may sound cliche but instead of living in denial, accepting the facts will help you be more confident in the sheets and on the streets. Once you give yourself the power to understand these facts, you’ll feel more relax in your own skin. To get over regret of break up you can refer my post in my community- https://app.coto.world/post/share/drkalps/76bde495-c8fd-45d9-a9cb-e37da69c72b1

Before initiating the conversation, educate yourself about BDSM. Understand the terminology, practices, and safety protocols involved. Remember, communication is key in any relationship. When both of you in full mood, you can just start with, "चलो, आज कुछ तुफानी करते है।" Then he will ask- how? Here approach the conversation with empathy, respect, and a willingness to listen to your partner's perspective. You don't have to dive into the most intense aspects of BDSM right away. Begin by expressing your curiosity and interest in exploring new things together. Be honest about your desires & fantasies regarding BDSM, but also be prepared to listen to your partner's thoughts and feelings. It's essential to create a safe space for both of you to share openly without judgment. Take small steps and gradually explore BDSM activities together. If you're both new to BDSM, consider seeking outside resources such as books, online forums, or workshops to learn more & explore together. Best Luck!

Do you know Self pleasure is also called as Selfie! Just like selfie shows all good looks of our face, it give you good points to pleasure. You explore your own body with your own hand. & remember You are safest in your own hands. Self pleasure starts from self love. Watch your body in mirror & try to embrace every erogenic part of it - like your lips, breast, naval area, vulva, etc with your figers. When you touch them, think about your fantasies - like role playing and your man is doing it all for you. It will be so stimulating at start. Now you can go for clitoral stimulation. While massaging this tiny pleasure button, you can change pattern, pressure and speed of your handling of clitoris & when you find a combination of it giving you max pleasure, you continue to do it. Even rubbing it's hood/skin over it can give you immense pleasure. You can try to penetrate your own vagina with fingers & afterwards with sex toys also. Explore points of pleasure there. Just don't be harsh

yes, you have too.

Just limit yourself to a few pieces at one time and eat the chocolates only when you want to reinforce yourself for doing some hard work or for achieving even small goals in your daily life.

well i like porn only till i reach orgasm and after hitting the big O it feels boring to watch not a porn addict but i do enjoy it and don't feel guilty at all

just first accept yourself. nobody is perfect. everyone makes judgement errors. we are all learning. no one step is the end of everything. there is an opportunity to grow and learn. move on

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do you mind sharing some of these regulations? i feel a lot of guilt, it's good to know from people who are like minded

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We always feel guilty about our past.But whatever happens. lt should be taken in a positive way.

ego doesn't want you to grow and explore. the job of your ego is to prevent you from growing because your comfort zone that you are already living in has become a safety net for the ego. ego doesn't want anything new. anything that needs work. that's why you don't have to listen to the ego. you've to prove to your ego that you are functioning from your higher self, a consciousness. not the ego. it has to know it doesn't have power over you.

guilty as charged with them rom coms!

Ya i want to but not able get myself to do it

It's okay to have some days when you feel low. Sometimes we need to let it go