So yesterday i had an argument with my bf. we have been together for about 3 years now. we both really love and support each other. My bf wants us to engage in sexual activity. However i tend to ignore this question and avoid doing it. Its not because i dont trust him, but due to my past relationship wherein i didnt have a good experience. Is it normal to regret past consensual sexual experiences? How do I tell my bf about it ?
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yes. it's normal to feel this way. try to have a open conversation with ur bf and understand him as well.
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Hello , You having these concerns are valid. You can have a healthy communication with your partner, telling him what you’re exactly feeling.
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Hi, This is totally your choice wheather sexually you want to engage with your bf or not and sharing previous experience also your choice but you need to counter your conflicts which will help you to take right decision.
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Hi. Hope you are doing well! I understand what you are going through and it’s very normal to feel This way. I feel communicating about this to your boyfriend assertively can help. Use “I” statements” to reflect that you aren’t blaming him or anything, it’s something that YOU feel and as your partner, he deserves to know. Be as gentle and calm as possible. Let me know if you want to discuss this further and we can surely connect! -Sampada - Psychotherapist an intimacy coach
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