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Causes of low Libido can be psychological like stress, depression or relationship issues, some medical conditions like diabetes, hypothyroidism, chronic illness or if you are under certain medications like anti- depressant. Even if you are taking oc pills/ birth control pills for long-term, it can also reduce your desire. First find your reason. If it due to medical reasons, get it treated by doctor. If are not enjoying different from of sex , it becomes bore with time. So do explore different positions, other forms of intimacy like curdling, oral sex, clitoral stimulation etc. Start working on yourself. Change dressing, haircut. Spend special time with each other daily - maybe just a coffee meet. Go on walks, shopping. Take holidays and enjoy with new exploration in sex life. If still no improvement, then Consult a Sexologist for treatment.

Hey! Hope you are doing well. Pain during sex is common and be cause due to various factors: lack of foreplay, lack of lubrication, vaginal dryness, vaginismus, some infection, UTI, injury, etc. make sure you are using a lot of lube and focusing on foreplay to prevent the pain. If the pain continues, see a doctor immediately as there can be an unusual discharge or irritation.

It’s totally normal to feel that way! I completely understand where you are coming from. Social media has a knack for portraying very “perfect” images of people which is unfortunate even though reality is so different. I can also understand intimacy causing anxiety. It’s totally normal. Try not to do anything that you aren’t ready for. As a therapist, I encourage you to try to get in touch with your emotions and re evaluate your values: think about what it is you truly seek from any relationship and journal it. Therapy can certainly help in this aspect 🩵

No need to swallow your pride dear. We are also doctors.😊 Sexologist will make you comfortable to talk about your sexual problems and help to solve them, they are not going to trouble you. Some of them are female also. If you want to, you can consult me online. We provide non judgemental, safe space to talk about your issues freely. So just don't hesitate to seek help. We are there to make your sex life full of greenary again.

Hey! Hope you are doing well 🩵 I can completely understand what you are going through. Changes in hormones and lifestyle are common in daily life and can bring about a lot of changes in intimacy and sex life. Don’t worry though! As a therapist, my suggestion would be to not put so much pressure on it. Try to eat right, sleep on time and drink lots of water. Take on some time during the day for yourself to explore your pleasure areas too! Helps a lot trust me 🌼 However, if the situation persists, do see a sexologist/ gynaecologist at the earliest and make sure you follow their guidance. Take care 🩵

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Take a selfie then !😍 Selfie/self love/masturbation practices can help you dear. Clitoral stimulation is best thing to achieve orgasm. You have to search by your own hands how and which pattern of stimulation is more satisfactory for you. You can also take help of sex toys as per your needs. Choose from vibrators, dildos or other toys as you want. Also reading erotic novel can help you in achieving satisfaction. readind, mastirbation and sex toys all can work together to make it possible. Only thing is you have to use different permutations and combinations each time. You can also try for play boys or friends with benefits on your own risks.

Hey! Hope you are doing well. Engaging in self pleasure healthily is very beneficial to our state of mind! It prevents anxiety, reduces stress and improves sleep. To start, begin by making your self comfortable. You can take all your clothes off or wear something loose and comfortable. Start by directing your hand or the toy on different parts of your body and try different movements with varying amounts of pressure to see which feels good. You can make the setting romantic by dimming the lights and playing some music. You can also indulge in self exploration in the shower! Hope this helps! Take care

It might be one of the reason. But not because you are fat so it is happening. It's quite possible that because of it's size, your boyfriend could has anxiety. What if I can't do it? She is having bigger pelvis and what if I couldn't fulfill her desire? Just because he has this anxiety of performance, it can affect his erections. He might be capable of doing it, but couldn't do it because he is anxious. It's very common reason, when a male concentrate on sexual act instead of enjoying the emotions for their partner. But this can be cured. You can take him to Sexologist for counseling and if necessary treatment. Don't pressurize, as your expectations can put extra burden on his shoulder and he become panic. Always use motivational words. If your partner have erections, then only sex can happen (Though you don't have desire). Talk freely with your partner, don't Use harsh words. Enjoy emotions, they will automatically take you to physical intimacy instead of thinking about only insertion

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i dont think you can subdue this urge for long. it will come out somewhere or other. it is best to talk with your partner. else ur urges will take over your mind and make you do things.