I am 21 and I want suggestions about when is it good for my mind and body to engage in sex for me not to regret later?

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darkchocolate asked 34 days ago

I am 21 and I want suggestions about when is it good for my mind and body to engage in sex for me not to regret later?

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intimacycoachsampadafotedar

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Hi there! Hope you are doing well. Having sex is certainly a huge step and it’s very important to be completely ready mentally and emotionally to take this step. Some tips I can give you are: 1. Make sure you have communicated your needs and wants to the partner: what you are looking for from this partnership, where you want it to lead to, your desires, fantasies, likes and dislikes. 2. Make sure you are safe: if you are not planning a pregnancy, use protection which saves you from pregnancy as well as STIs. And by safety, I also mean it’s important to make sure that you don’t get stuck in dangerous situations. Say NO whenever required. 3. If you do not feel ready, don’t feel pressurised to engage into this. Do it, only when you are a 100% sure. Do not doubt your thoughts and emotions.

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I have an issue

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but it is a painful

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Hey there. Hope you are doing well. If you are suffering from constant vaginal dryness, then you should certainly see a doctor!

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Hey there! relationships are great, but it is important to remember that you are an individual and balancing time with your partner by maintaining your personal space is key to all and every healthy relationship. I am a psychologist so I would love to offer you some tips when beginning with having an open communication which is cleared and honest. A communication needs comprehension and I would like for you to try using "I" phrases. for example, rather than saying "you're always around," trying saying " I need some time alone to recharge". This helps in not sounding accusatory and putting your needs forward. You can also have dedicated space and time in your home where you treat it as a retreat alone time space. While creating a schedule, be respectful of your partners routine and yours also. I would love to talk more about this with you, and I hope to see you in a live session. till then, all the best and take care of yourself.

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Hello Dear. I'm a Consultant Psychologist and Sexual Health Expert. You can increase your foreplay that would help you get aroused and increase the wetness in vagina. Or you can try lubricants which are available but if you are trying for a child, I wouldn't suggest lubricants as it kills the sperms. If not, try lubricants or even saliva would work. Hope that answers. Do join my live, i tend to speak on many sexual wellness topics.

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