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by BaharKalyoncuYücel on Dec 9, 2023

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Burası aşk, evlilik, ilişkiler ve bağlanma modellerini konuşacağımız, dertleşeceğimiz, çözümler üreteceğimiz yer. Tek taraflı bakmanın bizi sonuca götürmediğini bilerek, empatinin, şefkatin, şehvetin, onurlandırmanın olduğu ilişkileri nasıl inşa edebiliriz,işte tam olarak bu soruya cevaplar üreteceğiz. İdeal ilişki yoktur, ideal ilişkinin yaratımı vardır. Yaratımımız kutlu olsun cânım kadın. Hadi gel, beraber yolda gönlümüzü açalım, büyütelim, serpilelim. İlişki tohumlarımız göğe ulaşsın ! 🌴

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Concorde Sendromu Nedir ? Halk arasında vazgeçememe durumu olarak da bilinen Concorde sendromu, kişinin ilişkiye çok fazla yatırım yaptığı için o ilişki kendisine zarar verdiği halde ilişkiyi bitirememesi, kişiden vazgeçememe durumudur. Yıllar yılı o ilişkiye emek harcarsınız. Hem maddi hem manevi partnerinizin yanında olursunuz. Onunla birlikte hayatın iniş çıkışlarına göğüs gerersiniz. Bir gün işlerin düzeleceği, karşınızdaki kişinin değişeceğini düşünürsünüz. Halbuki karşınızdaki insan ilişkiye sizin kadar emek vermiyordur, sorumluluk almıyordur. Bencil ve çıkarcı davranıyordur. Tüm bunları görürsünüz görmesine ama kendinize “aslında özünde iyi biri”, “kötü bir çocukluk geçirmiş “ gibi varolanı objektif şekilde görmemizi engelleyen yorumlar yapabilirsiniz. Karşınızdaki insan size sadık olmadığı, sizi bir partner sıcaklığı ile koruyup kollamadığı halde o ilişkiden vazgeçmek sizin için zordur. Yıllardır yatırım yaptığınız o “ev”in aslında çürük bir ev olduğunu kabullenememe halidir vazgeçememe sendromu. Gerçeğin gözleri bizimle olsun cânım kadınlar. #concordesendromu #vazgeçememesendromu #ilişkiler

Concorde Sendromu Nedir ?
Halk arasında vazgeçememe durumu olarak da bilinen Concorde sendromu, kişinin ilişkiye çok fazla yatırım yaptığı için o ilişki kendisine zarar verdiği halde ilişkiyi bitirememesi, kişiden vazgeçememe durumudur. 

Yıllar yılı o ilişkiye emek harcarsınız. Hem maddi hem manevi partnerinizin yanında olursunuz. Onunla birlikte hayatın iniş çıkışlarına göğüs gerersiniz. Bir gün işlerin düzeleceği, karşınızdaki kişinin değişeceğini düşünürsünüz. Halbuki karşınızdaki insan ilişkiye sizin kadar emek vermiyordur, sorumluluk almıyordur. Bencil ve çıkarcı davranıyordur. Tüm bunları görürsünüz görmesine ama kendinize “aslında özünde iyi biri”, “kötü bir çocukluk geçirmiş “ gibi varolanı objektif şekilde görmemizi engelleyen yorumlar yapabilirsiniz. 

Karşınızdaki insan size sadık olmadığı, sizi bir partner sıcaklığı ile koruyup kollamadığı halde o ilişkiden vazgeçmek sizin için zordur. Yıllardır yatırım yaptığınız o “ev”in aslında çürük bir ev olduğunu kabullenememe halidir vazgeçememe sendromu. 

Gerçeğin gözleri  bizimle olsun cânım kadınlar.

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Ahahahahah, @PelinAlios

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çikolatayla ilişkim😂

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