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by AshMegha on Apr 27, 2023

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I've noticed my close group of friends can get quite competitive with each other at times. They'll one-up each other's accomplishments, make snide remarks about jobs/appearances, and there's an underlying tension of trying to be the "best" friend. Is this typical competitive behavior that happens in female friendships or is this level of passive aggression a red flag?

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I have seen such things before but personally I believe it doesnt lead to anything good and I consider it as a red flag. I mean its good to be ambitious but competing with your friends isnt the answer as it comes with various feelings such as jealousy, envy and hatred

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I have personally dealt with such things and have come to conclusion that it's female nature

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So even I have my girl gang and we are a trio. We definitely have way many arguments and conflicts however we never had this thing to be ahead of each other. We always wished to get success together. So I think this is definitely a red flag and u should avoid being a part of such group

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