by suspicious_123 on Nov 20, 2023
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So yesterday I was having conversation with a male friend who said if you guys want to be equal stop taking alimony. It makes sense to me why beg for me? @Nazneen
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Really? Seriously? Why do girls have to leave paternal house after marriage? Why do girls have to change their surname? Even if legally she continues with her originsl name why is it considered normal to be addressed as Mrs. XYZ after marriage? Why is she given her husband s surname on even legal documents like PAN card in couch a case. Why do girls have to fight for their name identity to start with. Rest of the things come next. Why is expected and blamed directly on the girl on the first go to make or break a family? Why men are justified just being the earning members?why is sacrifice and adjustments a normal thing for just girls and BIG thing for guys? And kindly inform and educate your male friend equality isn't for physical things. Rise up and stop gaslighting the women. Equality is for the Respect for whatever they are doing. Equality is for mutual support. Equality is for mutual distribution of efforts in keeping the families together. Equality is for mutual Freedom
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