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by Bhavna Thadani on Apr 22, 2023

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Hey Friends, Somewhere in the midst of all the living we do, we tend to get wound up in unwanted thoughts and emotions, which often keep us from achieving our goals and becoming the person we are meant to be. My endeavour as a life coach is to help you pause, reflect and take daily small actionable steps towards your higher purpose in a simplified way. I will share actionable content which ( I hope) will inspire you to take the next step towards becoming a better version of yourself. So if this resonates with you, join the Vanilla Girl tribe😊 With Love Bhavna

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Divya. How do I navigate the expectations of being a "perfect" wife, mother, and employee without feeling overwhelmed or inadequatee

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MindsetbyMeenal

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As bhavna mentioned we are all work in progress.. no one is perfect and it is futile to attempt to be one! Also we are not born to make everyone happy all the time... So chill relax, do your best to all those matter to you and at the same time stop being critical and judgmental towards yourself.. Life is beautiful ❤️... Smile 😊 and be Happy ✨✨✨

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BhavnaThadani

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The notion of perfect is a myth. We are all work in progress. Prioritise based on the situation and remind yourself often than “you’re enough the way you are “

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