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by Mona Singh on Jan 21, 2023

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For my entire lifetime, I thought to myself that living as an independent woman will lead to me having my ocyz space , all things done and all no one to say anything or something. But now as I grow up I think yeah this all independence is fine but when you are hurt you need your mum, when you're distressed you need your dad, when you're feeling low you need your siblings, you need your partner, friends. Everyone has different mechanisms but we all at some point need someone. And that's life. Choosing what's best for yourself is your marzi but choosing to cut off people just to be independent is not something I believe in. What's your take on being independent?

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answered 370 days ago

Absolutely. We are social beings and we do need people around us for us to celebrate with together 🥂

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I completely support the idea of being independent especially for women. It gives women a sense of confidence to potray her worth to others.

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Na_Dia

answered 370 days ago

I believe in financial independence but emotionally you need people around, you can't cut off yourself from everywhere

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Independence is valuable, but meaningful connections and support are essential for emotional well-being. Balancing self-reliance with a supportive network enriches life.

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I m cmpltly agree with this somtyms i also feel lyk this

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