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Hey girls. I need to know if I'm just being an idiot rushing into this living together thing. How long do most couples even last before either getting married or breaking up? I don't want to be naive and assume we'll be that perfect exception. Can anyone share the experience?????

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Vanshiks

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Living in is an important step before you decide to marry. Its the litmus test , irrespective of your relationship failing or passing this test one thing is for sure you ll definitely find out if its worth it or not and you can make informed decisions for your future .. so go for it id say!

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Hey, so living together creates a better understanding of the ther person, what your temperament s are, how much you can underand and accommodate with each other. its kinda mock before the real thing. Go for it, because if this can tell you for sure if you can live together peacefully or not. and marriages after a live in have better chances of being successful.

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Kavya_r

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yes it will work out just be safe!

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Being in a live in doest guarantee the success of your relationship. But you never know it might work out.

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I wish it works for you!

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