by Mona Gujral on Sep 15, 2022
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hi guys, i have been dealing with slot of things alcoholic husband, financial problem, speech delayed 3 year old hyperactive baby and a lot of mental trauma. now i am pregnant with 2nd child. I don't want this baby becoz i have financial problem. nut my gamily wants me to have this baby. what should i do
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hii neha it's your life so you should take your decision...if you not feel good about your 2nd pregnancy then take forward steps otherwise things maybe worst in future
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