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I am 21 and I am unemployed unlike my friends they keep going on trips etc and I can't because I am jobless. they don't know that have think I just don't like them anymore. why do I feel so guilty. @AskAarti

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This is quite difficult place to be in, You must be feeling quite helpless and hopeless but thanks for sharing and its absolutely okay to feel this way, Id suggest you writing your feelings and also action plan for job

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i understand it's a tough situation for you. How about creating a clear boundary. set yourself in a safe zone where instead of going along with them, you decide a frequency like once in 2-3 months you will accompany them, rest of the days u will not. ( chose as per your situation and comfort) . and then it's equally important for you to communicate to them also . no one will feel bad and u will also know your plan basis your financial situation. another aspect is, since they r working n u r staying at home( not clear a mom or unmarried) u can look for women of your frequency and make new groups. it's important to evolve in friendships if things n not in your favour or make u feel bad. hope this helps happy to help Aarti 💕

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