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So recently my boyfriend went somewhere far away for some work purposes. He felt so sad that he has to live without me for a month now. But I feel so guilty that I am actually relieved that he is going away for some time. I do feel guilty feeling this. Is it normal to feel like this? Of is something wrong?

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AshMegha

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It's completely normal. Sometimes we just need to get away from the most precious people of our life and that doesn't mean that we love them less. It's just a way of coping that you burst or lash out on them

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Yes, I think it is normal. sometimes we just get tired of our routine and relationships. we feel like spending some time with ourselves.

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PsychologistPragya_Arora

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Hey, I am Pragya Arora, a clinical psychologist and I am here to help you navigate through your issues! Sweetheart you don’t need to feel guilty about looking forward to your personal time and space however a sense of “relief” if for other reasons for example- if you are feeling relieved that he is going away and you wouldn’t have to deal with him then there’s something larger at play here that we can explore together. Come chat with me?

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Hi. I hope you are doing well! I am a psychotherapist and an intimacy coach. I can assure you that it’s very normal to feel this way. It’s valid to want some space and Time for yourself. I understand you are feeling guilty but trust me, being in your company would be very beneficial for you. Hope it helps!

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I just want to say. just be self independent before planning for anything. share your qualification in my WhatsApp number for work from home ( +919435110521)

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