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by Jaspreet Kaur on Jul 22, 2023

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I am Roshini. My divorce was recently finalized after a long separation. While I'm relieved to have closure, I'm struggling with how to effectively co-parent our two young kids with my ex-husband. My ex and I argue a lot when dealing with the kids after our divorce. How can we get better at co-parenting without fighting in front of them? @Jaspreetkaur

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In fight we always expect to change others. But in reality, it cannot happen that way. To make your husband calm infront of your kids, first you need to take initiative to make yourself calm when he misbehaves. once you start taking initiative, he doesnt have anything to say. Another thing, find your triggers when your husband misbehaves so that you could avoid responding on it infront of your kids

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