I have barely get time for myself since I got married and had kids. But now i seem to get some of it when the kids go to school and husband goes to work. And i understand its good to have time alone but its no more something i enjoy, I feel. Instead i just long for them to come back home. I don’t know how this feeling has come into me and I know its bad cause every women should thoroughly enjoy her alone time. Now, if i may ask, what are some things you would suggest to ur fellow women mates to enjoy during their little alone time??

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I have barely get time for myself since I got married and had kids. But now i seem to get some of it when the kids go to school and husband goes to work. And i understand its good to have time alone but its no more something i enjoy, I feel. Instead i just long for them to come back home. I don’t know how this feeling has come into me and I know its bad cause every women should thoroughly enjoy her alone time. Now, if i may ask, what are some things you would suggest to ur fellow women mates to enjoy during their little alone time??

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Astro_Vishwas

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pls joiny live 9am to 10am 12pm to 3pm

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same pinch... If you are working, you must be already short on time.. If not,try to immerse yourself in some hobbies, it will give you happiness..

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