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My partner and I fight constantly about money. He wants to splurge, and I'm all about saving. How can couples handle conflicting financial priorities and work towards shared goals? Open communication seems key, but are there any tricks to navigating these money battles?

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Hi Beautiful. Yes! I'm a Consultant Psychologist and Sexual Health Expert. I think it's important to understand each of you is different and that has its own challenges. Like you said, other than communication. It's important to understand why it's important for them to splurge, why it gives joy and the same for you. Understanding each others priorities and then putting across your needs is important. Say, you want to save in Mutual funds or RD every month a certain amount but because of your husband's splurge can get difficult. How about you ask him to open a RD or MF and rest he can use it for himself and family. While you can keep your values and needs, and he can keep his values and needs. It's a very debatable topic but it would be better to get to know you more. Join my live sessions and we will discuss more on call. - Consultant Psychologist

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