by Smita Bansal on Dec 19, 2022
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So I am so disgusted to share this story but I don't have anyone else to ask advice from. Yesterday my daughter brought his bf at home so that I can meet him. As soon as he met me hw started complementing me and then flirted with me as well. I felt so good that someone feels that I am good looking so I also started flirting with him. While my daughter was in the kitchen preparing snacks for us. He suddenly pulled me over and kissed me. I also kissed him until I realized that it was all wrong. Now I am so disgusted by myself. I don't know what to do. Shall I tell my daughter about it ? What if she thinks that I am a bad mother and she starts hating me. Pls help. Any advice?
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Dear,it's ok.Dont tell your daughter anything now.She won't be able understand it b4 she herself become a women looking for validation.And it's not your fault too. Just make sure that bastard is out of your life and your daughter's life. Tour daughter deserve a man of virtue.Not someone who pulls the mom..So just relax.. it's good that his character is reflected.. whenever she will see any pretty lady he will hit them and your daughter will be in pain.So just one thing. Be happy and just kick that bastard out
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boys are all chutiyas please give some other reasons to your daughter and convince her to breakup coz that guy is a playboy for sure so keep him away and don't ruin your relationship with your daughter
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I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. It's crucial to be honest with your daughter about what happened, as secrets can be harmful. Acknowledge your mistake and assure her it was a lapse in judgment. Seek support, maybe consider counseling, to navigate through this difficult situation as a family. Open communication is key to rebuilding trust.
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I can only imagine how bewildering and distressing that experience must have been for you. It's indeed confusing and concerning how someone can act in such a way, especially when they're supposedly in a relationship with your daughter. While it's crucial to communicate openly with your daughter about this unsettling incident, it's also essential to approach it with care and sensitivity. Expressing your concerns about the behavior of the boy is important for her well-being and the integrity of your relationship with her.
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be honest to yourself. and u yourself will get the ans. it's very obvious . u are a human being. u also have some needs. but he is not the right guy. so I suggest you to speak to your daughter tactfully.
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